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I'm Quitting VP

edited November 2010 in General Discussion
*You can ignore the purple section if you would like. The red section will mention my things.<br><span style="font-size:85"><br><span style="color:#BF00BF"><br>I've played VP since 2004 and I think it's time for me to just be done. I've accomplished all I've wanted to accomplish except one thing. I've made guides with a few that were stickied and I hope the ones that weren't stickied will be remembered and bumped. I have given to the community with ideas, suggestions, hosting the Halloween event, giving away 300mil, gave away numerous gifties and tried to be a good player and answer peoples' questions. I also was the one that started using 'oak' first and encouraged others to use it. I bet not many of you knew I was the one that started that since I didn't go around stating it.<br><br>Some of my friends know that I have been aspiring to be a moderator on the game. That was the one thing I never accomplished and it was one of my first goals when I joined the game seriously. I've tried my hardest to give back and be improving on here. I realize that this goal will most likely never be fulfilled and without that, I have nothing left to strive for on the game. If I felt an inkling that this would happen, I'd probably remain here but I don't. <br><br>Some of my other goals on here was to reach on all the lines I have started on, and I have. There's only one line I haven't gotten of mine and I decided that I'm just done trying on it. Another goal was to be able to submit numerous guides and have some sticked. Having a large collection of gifties was another along with having a huge kennel with amazing dogs.<br><br>I've just found that I'm done with VP. I spend too much time on it than I need to. Some things on this game even upset me and yet I still come back all the time. One of the threads on here keeps getting pushed up and talked on and whenever I see theres a new post on there, I cringe. I hate what the topic is on and it makes my mood plummet every time. I've always wanted to post on there with how disheartening it made me feel but I kept it in. Also the vent board has always bothered me to no end. We all have problems. I have mine and at home, I never get to really talk about them because my mom complains to me about hers and I feel like I need to cheer her up. Coming on here and seeing all the vents just makes me frustrated on how much complaining there is. Sure, they are simple little things like "omg my brother stole my hairbrush." I just never saw the need to post such things. I've always thought that you need to -change- what is upsetting you or do something about it. What difference does it make typing it all out if you don't fix it or at least attempt to make it better on yourself? <br><br>Redirecting to something else, I always seem to get an attitude from certain players. I do nothing but stat a simple little fact or point something out and I get rudeness. I never showed annoyance or anger towards them but yet that's what I get back. I'm tired of being treated like that by those few players who also expect me to give them things or do them favors.<br><br>Switching topics again, the economy on the game is bad. Gifties aren't seeming to sell and that is my main income of cash. There is no fun in this for me if I can't sell what I have and buy new dogs. Before it was fun because 5oaks could get 7mil-10mil but now it's hard to even sell them for 5mil. Things are just not fun for me anymore. What is the point of me getting gifties when I am not able to know I can turn around and sell them?<br><br>10x4s also aren't selling for what they used to and it seems like so many people are collecting them. It makes it nearly impossible for me to be able to even collect them or that there's no point to it. I like a little competition and that's what makes it fun but off of the top of my head I can think of about a whole bunch of people that want them. I know someone could argue that's what gifties are like but with gifties there are way more colors available and majority of the people that collect them don't want every single one; people pick out colors they like. I don't know, I'm just not liking it anymore.</span><br><br><br><span style="color:#BF4040"><br>As for my things that I have accumulated over the course of the game, some things are reserved for certain people. Friends can go <a href="http://virtualpups.com/forum/viewtopic.php?f=44&t=71970"; target="_blank" class="bb-url">HERE</a> to see what is available.<br><br>If anyone would like to still keep in touch with me, I will still check forum pms once in awhile or you may message me for my msn messenger. I will still lurk on forums but I will not be posting or doing anything in the game.<br><br>I will be active in the game until December. I'm allowing myself until the end of November to settle the last trainoff I'm in, finish olympics, bid on things I may have won from auctions, give friends things, and overall wrap it up.<br><br>VP has been an interesting experience. I'm grateful for the few friends I've made on here. Thank you. <br><br><br></span><br></span>
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  • ;')
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    "Discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes, but in New Eyes."
  • =/ This can't be happening. Please tell me you aren't.
    <br><br>My reaction =/
    All good things must come to an end. All endings will begin new good things.
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  • Sorry. Cleaned up my spewing of crap. *mops up*
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    "Discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes, but in New Eyes."
  • I can't stay. I'm just ready to close and be done with this site. I'm glad its occupied me for so long. Me quitting is not a random thing. I have thought about it for months and months. <br><br>And shay, play because you enjoy it or play it to excel. You dont need me active in the game. =)
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  • :twisted:
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  • I'm sorry to read this Tarn. Obviously I want you to do what you'll be happy with but you'll still be missed. You've been a huge part of this game for a long time.
  • Thank you for your words Zag =). I'm glad I was able to see you get your 10x4s. Like I said before, that was coming for a long time. Those were well deserved.
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  • Thank you. It means a lot to me, especially coming from someone who got a ton of 10x4s. Haha.
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    Im really sorry you have to leave tarnish, from what I hear from alot of people you are a great player :) I also remember when you helped me when I was picking out my 2 gifite colors :3 and when you reminded me about the color letter limit xD
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  • Tarn just a few words =[<br>you have always been a sweet kind person<br>you have helped me sooo much i couldnt thank you enough<br>i will miss you =[<br>vp wont be the same without you<br>i do wish you the best in the real world<br>--JMC<br><br>p.s.<br>i agree with you about alot in the purple section.<br>-rude people,nothing selling,etc
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  • I think you make valid points, and respect your decision, though I will miss your wisdom. I think you are probably one of the most, if not the most, respected player of this game. Part of life is about moving on and trying new things, so it would be a big expectation for anyone to remain around VP forever. I hope that whatever you do with your life brings you happiness.
    I'm done with VP. I'll just be around until I get all my dogs and lines placed in good hands. If you want to contact me, please do so through deviantART.
  • I'm glad that I was able to help you Holleywood and Jm. =) I wish you guys luck with the game and hope everything goes well for you.<br><br>Sushi, I don't know about most respected. I can't help but feel a little happy though when you say that. Thank you so much for your words. I'm hoping that without vp, I can do some of the things I have been wanting to do like art, learn an instrument, get outside more and just experience more overall.
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  • I read a section on a post about how not to say sorry to see you go. Well im not, im happy for you! All your reasons...so nicley stated. I also have been on more then needed and the game is just lame. Yet I still havent had the power to get my butt up. I guess im sort of thanking you for everything, includng inspiring me. Im thinking about quitting just in school year time now, consideing everything you said under your GD post, was so true.Youve helped the VP community tons Tarnish, and I know Ive been very rude to you at times. Im very defensive, and im always debating things, its something im working on haha. VP will miss you, and your help, but mabey people will relize we all took you for granite. Your amazing, and I hope you find somewhere else you enjoy as much as you did VP. Hophelly one day, someone will come on and liven vp up again. And if were really lucky, someone will help put and give as much as you have! Like Zag said, your by far the most respected player on this game. If I see you on a ref list, I know I can trust someone. We love you and we'll miss you! Have a great life Tarn!
  • I don't think we have ever talked, but I have to agree with Sushi. From posts I have seen and just talk among players about you, I can see that you are respected here. I've read your guides and they have helped me a whole lot. :) That says a lot in my books. <br><br>My only regret is that I didn't try talking to you sooner. Enjoy life! :P
  • Hm. Strange. Yours is one of the few familiar names around on VP for me. (I've been on VP since '05, was inactive from about '07 until this August, so there aren't many people I remember from before) It'll be odd not to have you around. Lots of people are commenting that you've made an impact on VP and the community here--I agree with them, from what I've seen. It sounds like you've made a good decision in leaving VP, though. I don't really have anything else to say, since I don't really know you.
  • I read this and just kind of nodded in agreement the whole time. As you well know, I've been around forever too, since 04. Lately I've been out of the game.. for well, months now. I just lurk on the forums and in chat. I know how you feel, and I feel the same. Don't ever think for one second, though, that you aren't respected. I can name quite a few players right off the top of my head that look up to and respect you more than any player I've ever seen, and I mean that. I respect your decision to leave and the reasons for doing so, you will be missed. You've been one of the best friends I've met in this community. <3
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  • totouser: I wasn't necessarily calling the game lame exactly. It's just not as fun as it used to be and I've been letting it get in the way with life. I'm going to be going to college soon and need to stop playing games. Maybe in time I'll get my butt back on here and lightly play. Only time will say. I don't really think I was taken for granted or anything, just some people can't seem to show respect though that is going to be true in all areas of life. It just so happens that this is an option. I can choose whether I stick around for certain comments, or I just leave. And liven up vp? I think it takes more than one person for that because in a sense, we're all just lightbulbs trying to light up a room xD. Some just have more watts then others. I dont particularly think I was a cheerful person but I don't think I was 'gloom and doom' either. Who knows *shrugs* Anways, thank you totouser =)<br><br>KittKattize: We haven't really talked much and I just think that we hadn't gotten much of a chance to do so in the first place. And talk among other players about me? For some reason that makes me worried xD. I always assume the worst. Thank you so much and I'm glad my guides could help. I just hope they won't be dragged down and forgotten. Especially my guide on lines, that was just a beast! xD<br><br>RoseCooper: Ah another VP veteran? I can't quite remember my kennel name from 04 but in my early years I had some strange names. 2007 was when I settled on 'tarnish' as a name and thought it was short, easy to spell, and was an interesting word. Thank you for your thoughts =)<br><br>Vivi: I had a feeling you'd be in agreement xD. I noticed your absence lately and I was like, "Where's vi!?" because I'd be sitting on chat all lonely. You're also a good friend I've made here~ I remember when I first saw your banners when you went more as violet-eyed (something to that extent?) I was like "OOH those are cool!" Then I happened to stumble into chat and saw you there and you were all like, "heyy!" and I was like "hey!" and then we know where that led! Haha =). Thank you so much vivi~
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  • :'(<br><br>Tarnyness! Aw man, Imma be all sad now D:<br>Aw gosh darn it tarn! You were getting to be one of my good good buddies on here. I've talked to you for what seems like forever! Gotta love your gifties and epic humor! I'm gonna miss you so much! <br>Oh noes! Don't leave me alone in chat with Sarah and Tara! NO! BAD THINGS WILL HAPPEN TO ME!!! AH!<br>Luffls ya tarn!<br>All the best luck n wishes to ya!<br><3 Coaster/Bobolu/Bobo/Bob/Bobbles/in-taras-tummy-on-chat
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  • What is this epic humor of which you speak? xD I don't think I'm that funny, just lucky with the order of words that spews out. =)<br><br>And tara will do no harm as long as you fling her anime characters at her. She'll like that! Offer her a Byakuya! <br><br>Don't be too sad, I'll probably stop by in chat on occasion. I will miss certain people too much to not drop by once in awhile and see how they are or how the game is progressing.
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  • Aw, I'm gonna miss seeing you around. I know we never really got to know each other but I've always admired you for your gifties, the guides you've made, all that stuff. You were a great player that really helped a lot of people and I'm going to miss you!
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  • I was rottysitting so I only just read this and : (<br><br>I will miss you Tarn, you are one of the people on here that I do consider a friend. You'd better still pop on chat sometimes :P<br><br>I do feel that you somewhat underestimate your impact on the community though :P You are a kind, caring, giving, helpful person. You were often helpful in chat and on the forums, with answering questions, making guides, or holding the Halloween event. So whether you think so or not you will be missed. From an op point of view you were always a pleasure to deal with, the welshie incident comes to mind :P<br><br>So while I would like you to stay, I completely understand your need to step back from vp. I wish you the best in pursuing other things and certainly hope to catch you sometimes in chat : )
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  • tarnish wrote:
    Vivi: I had a feeling you'd be in agreement xD. I noticed your absence lately and I was like, "Where's vi!?" because I'd be sitting on chat all lonely. You're also a good friend I've made here~ I remember when I first saw your banners when you went more as violet-eyed (something to that extent?) I was like "OOH those are cool!" Then I happened to stumble into chat and saw you there and you were all like, "heyy!" and I was like "hey!" and then we know where that led! Haha =). Thank you so much vivi~
    <br>Yea.. I've been busy with work and school and the new boyfriend and just.. life in general. I haven't trained a dog since.. gah.. June? xD I just pop in on chat every once in a while. You know where to find me, though. I'm also just a text/call away. :)
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  • tarnish wrote:
    KittKattize: We haven't really talked much and I just think that we hadn't gotten much of a chance to do so in the first place. And talk among other players about me? For some reason that makes me worried xD. I always assume the worst. Thank you so much and I'm glad my guides could help. I just hope they won't be dragged down and forgotten. Especially my guide on lines, that was just a beast! xD
    <br><br>Don't worry about the talk, I've only ever heard good things!
  • Im sure everyone will make sure your guide is bumped up to the top so it will be useful to other players :) and honestly it helped me.
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  • Coming from a stranger's point of view, you're doing the right thing.
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  • <span style="color:#FF00BF"><span style="font-size:85">Aw Tarn, I know we don't talk very often anymore, but I'm so glad that you being on VP has given me the opportunity to meet such a great friend. <3<br>I too haven't been around much. Just lurking now and then. So I understand your reasons for leaving, and I def. know where to find you!<br><br>Never doubt how much you've done for the game. I myself have learned lots from you and have always respected and looked up to you as well!<br>And it was clear to see that many others did the same.<br>You've made the game a better place, you've helped lots of people, and you've accomplished a lot through your dedication.<br><3 I'll miss seeing ya around, but we'll still keep in touch!</span></span>
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  • D:<br>My heart literally plummeted when I read that you were leaving on chat! I dont want to sound soppy, but I will actually miss you! I consider you a friend and someone I can get along with, and I agree with everyone else who has said it; you better pop up on chat every now and then!!<br><br>I hope you enjoyed your time on VP and hope you never forget it!<br><3
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  • ilovedogs111: Thank you so much =) that means a lot.<br><br>Ori: I'll try and pop into chat! I can't totally go without talking to everyone =)<br>I appreciate the compliments, I tried not to be a little bugger for you guys, haha. Those welshes will sit in my kennel for when that coding is ready. I don't plan on getting rid of them and I'll still be logging in. If you want to take them, let me know. I just thought I'd tell you that they will still be sitting like they have. <br><br>Thank you so much =)<br><br>Sea Oats: Definitely know how to reach you and we'll keep in touch ;D <br><br>KittKattize: Ooh that's good! ;; hahah<br><br>Holleywood: That would be nice. I wouldn't want all my work to sink down =)<br><br>Grapple: I could've sworn we talked before a long time ago? <br><br>Horse: I'm happy I could help you! And darnit, we need to talk more! I know where to find you but we somehow keep missing each other. It makes me sad. <br><br>Sim: I'll pop in! I swears! I still want to be able to talk with everyone.Thank you so much for your words =)
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  • Not going to sit here and make this some long on going speech. Anyway hopefully you still come around and visit. Even though we haven't talked in forever. lol I know I am really just been a lurker lately since I have hardly no time for vp. Totally understand the reasons for leaving. Plus things just aren't the same as they use to be. Not the same vp that I could sit and play for hours while my kids were in school. Have fun and good luck in the future! :D
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