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Losing weight, with a family who doesnt want to!

lilly waterslilly waters
edited August 2010 in Vent
Lately, I have been on the kick to lose this weight. I know its nessary but no one seems to support me. I have told them I will make my own meals since they dont want to cook/eat healthy. But it annoys me when I do want to eat the meal, because it will be healthy (chicken salad), I am very happy. <br><br>Well instead of the chicken I thought my mom was making at the last minute she decided to dread it in flour althong with coat it in sauce. I was so mad >.<. Shes like oh its only as little bit, its still very healthy. Ya right! I mean shes done this before, or shes come in on me when Im excercising and told me I wasnt allowed to do it because I needed to do something else. And its like she doesnt even want me to lose the weight (and its not cause I dont need to lose the weight, my docter said I should lose weight, and my bmi is pretty high).<br><br>I asked her why she didnt just do a plain chicken breast and she told me she wasnt a short order cook. I aksed her if there was any chicken left and she told me that I should go live on my own and buy my own food if I was gonna care so much about eating healthy.<br><br><br>Like what the heck is wrong with her?<br><br>Cookies to whomever reads, Im just annoyed >.<

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  • Pepper97Pepper97
    76.20.213.100
    You can still eat sauces, in moderation. Just ask her to put a small ammount of salad aside for you before she bathes the rest in dressing.<br>If you're only trying to loose a little layer of fat off your tummy, then just do some sit-ups and cut back on the sugars, maybe go for a jog in the morning and sign up for a yoga class. I'm very active, swimming/jogging daily, tumbling 2 times a week, etc., but had a layer of tummy fat. I went with my regular athletics schedule and added some sit-ups and extra practice in between, along with cutting off the sugars completely and lost 3 or 4 lbs. Enough to loose all the fat off my tummy. And, my skin's been MUCH clearer; I usually do have clear skin, but now it looks amazing. >]
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  • SaryinaSaryina
    72.156.61.3
    -nom, nom- Cookies. 8D<br>I dont have any solutions, compared to all the suggestions Pepper gave you. Those do sound like they help lose weight/get you into shape/etc.<br>I hope everything goes well for you. I dont really try to lose weight, since I suggested it once to my mom, and she brought me straight to the physician, who lectured me about how I was already "underweight" and that lecture lasted an hour. I almost died. xD
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  • lilly waterslilly waters
    68.144.101.89
    Pepper97 wrote:
    You can still eat sauces, in moderation. Just ask her to put a small ammount of salad aside for you before she bathes the rest in dressing.<br>If you're only trying to loose a little layer of fat off your tummy, then just do some sit-ups and cut back on the sugars, maybe go for a jog in the morning and sign up for a yoga class. I'm very active, swimming/jogging daily, tumbling 2 times a week, etc., but had a layer of tummy fat. I went with my regular athletics schedule and added some sit-ups and extra practice in between, along with cutting off the sugars completely and lost 3 or 4 lbs. Enough to loose all the fat off my tummy. And, my skin's been MUCH clearer; I usually do have clear skin, but now it looks amazing. >]
    <br><br><br>It wasnt so much the dressing on the salad, that I was able to put stuff on myself. But the way she made the chicken she put this super sugery sauce on, and then again she wouldnt even leave it off mine becayse she "wasnt a short order cook".<br><br>I've been doing a variaty of excercizes, I cant go anywhere to do them as the rents wont let me, and going for a jog is out of the question in my neighborhood. But we have a treadmill in our basement I have been working on, as well as my dancer excersizes when I was a dancer I learned, etc. Just a question how would I cut out sugars all together, I mean almost everything my family makes is sugar, is there a healthy alternative I can do to the dinner if I ask mom I will cook and just puts stuff aside for me?<br><br><br>haha clear skin, now Im reAlly curious. Mines alright, when I was on holidays it cleared up so much, and now coming back Im already getting worse. And I think I probley ate more "bad: stuff on holidays.
  • UnknownDreamlandUnknownDreamland
    192.41.16.86
    <span style="font-size:80"> First of all, I'd like to note that I find it amusing that you made a vent about wanting to eat healthy, but you gave us cookies for reading. XDD<br><br>Anyway, I sort of know what you mean, I'm losing weight, but I'm really trying to <span style="font-style:italic">gain</span> weight. And I mean, the doctors are telling me to eat more, but eat healthy. But my parents bring home McDonalds and they're like.. "It's fattening!" DX <br>It's like.. Are you trying to<span style="font-style:italic"> help </span>me? <span style="font-style:italic">Really</span>? Because that's just unhealthy.<br><br>I mean, it's not the same, because at least my parents are sort of trying rather than preventing me from gaining weight, but I know the general feeling. < 3</span>
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  • lilly waterslilly waters
    68.144.101.89
    Dreamland wrote:
    <span style="font-size:80"> First of all, I'd like to note that I find it amusing that you made a vent about wanting to eat healthy, but you gave us cookies for reading. XDD<br><br>Anyway, I sort of know what you mean, I'm losing weight, but I'm really trying to <span style="font-style:italic">gain</span> weight. And I mean, the doctors are telling me to eat more, but eat healthy. But my parents bring home McDonalds and they're like.. "It's fattening!" DX <br>It's like.. Are you trying to<span style="font-style:italic"> help </span>me? <span style="font-style:italic">Really</span>? Because that's just unhealthy.<br><br>I mean, it's not the same, because at least my parents are sort of trying rather than preventing me from gaining weight, but I know the general feeling. < 3</span>
    <br><br><br>Haha I just noticed that to but I dont think anyone would like carrot sticks and cucumbers :P Maybe they were healthy cookies? xD<br><br>Mhmm.. I like how you have the oppistie sistuation but the same feelings. Its just hard sometimes, then I feel I should just give up and wait till Im living on my own and then I think it would be so much easier.
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