Really..? Now..?

Garnet · May 2010

Okay, so a few of you guys have been keeping up with a post about this girl at my school. So, I figured I would update you guys yet again on the latest news. Yesterday (5-19-10), towards the end of my 5th period Algebra II class, Sheila and I was leaving to go to the Sewing lab to get the teacher to put a patch on my jeans. Well, this girl - lets call her Nicki again - handed Sheila a note and told her it was for me. So, Sheila gave me the note and we walked out of the classroom and I started to read it walking outside to the Sewing lab. About half way through, it made me VERY angry and I crumbled the note up and put it in my pocket. We got to the sewing lab and the teacher wasn't in there. The only two people in the classroom were Promise and Melissa, two of our fellow Juniors. Not able to control my temper, I started to rant to Sheila about it and read the note to her out loud. She thought that it was ridiculous. •The note basically said that I told her not to date my ex - Which all my friends can't remember me even saying that to her - and that her depression was my fault because I took her happiness away from her and that I wasnt a good friend because I was dating a guy that she had a crush on a few months ago. It alss - Direct Quote - "Maybe one day you will realise your mistakes." and that her mother wanted her to forgive me, but she couldnt. Also, she told me not to try appologizing cuz she still wasn't gonna talk to me for a while. •I sat down and wrote a note back to her saying that I didn't care who she dated and that she didnt have to talk to me if she didnt want to. I said that her mother had talked to me as well and that I thought it was all stupid to be doing all this. I told her how Sheila said i was a good friend because even though we fight and both have our faults, that we got over it because we were such great friends. Appearantly her friendship isn't that great with me if she couldn't get over it. I also stated that I didn't see any mistakes I made because i really couldn't find anything that I had done wrong. In the very end, I told her that I wasn't going to appologize because i had done nothing to deserve her attitude and that she could talk to me when she was ready. Then, i went to the living room part of the sewing lab and used my teachers copy machince to make a copy of BOTH notes. Nicki has a habit of changing peoples words and twisting everything to make herself look like the victim. Now I have the orignal note from her and copies of both notes in my purse. Do you think I said anything wrong when I replied to her note? I mean, seriously? We have TWO weeks of school left.. Why start all this drama now..? I was so mad at lunch that my hands were shkaing and I couldn't even eat lunch... Sorry this is so long.. Thank you guys for reading if you make it this far

Also, if you guys wanna read the actual notes, I'll type them out to you through a PM. *Random side note. I can hear Vampy in the auditorium playing her clarinet, practicing for the schools concert tonight xD*

JayMay7 · May 2010

I went through this with one of my friends, it's tough and she probably wont talk to you for a while, but my friend came around, maybe yours will too. Hope everything goes well.

BuffyBoarding · May 2010

So... I know your general age (not exact, but i saw prom pictures) and really? Notes? Immature? I would leave it alone, if she writes a note back, don't reply. She sounds like she has alot of growing up to do, and until she does, i know i wouldn't be around her.

Garnet · May 2010

Buffy wrote:

So... I know your general age (not exact, but i saw prom pictures) and really? Notes? Immature? I would leave it alone, if she writes a note back, don't reply. She sounds like she has alot of growing up to do, and until she does, i know i wouldn't be around her.

That's exactly what this girl in our class, Marcie, said. Writting back to her in a note was the only way to get her to pay attention. Every time i tied actually talking to her about it she would just walk off or tell me to shut up. That was the only way to get her to hear me out.. =/

RoyalRaccoon · May 2010

I don't know what it is, but it seems like that last month of high school is a swimming pool of drama. I guess all the people that feel they haven't gotten enough attention figure they aren't going to get another chance, so they have to hurry while they can. My brother's going through some stupid stuff like this. The problem occurred months ago, both learned to ignore or work around each other, but suddenly the other person wants to bring back all the drama right before the end of the school year. Notes like the one you got are immature, and completely pointless in my opinion unless you are ready to make amends. It sounds like attention seeking to me.

Appearantly her friendship isn't that great with me if she couldn't get over it.

I agree.

Garnet · May 2010

Thank you Sushi. Im glad that next week is my last week of my Junior year.. One more year and I'm free of high school for good.. I really can't wait. I'm starting to lose my temper with her, because I've started snapping at her when she smarts off to me. The kids in my class say that this is a new side of me.. All they have ever known is me being nice to everyone and quiet all the time..

UglyDogBlue · May 2010

I have learned, form a lot of drama in high school the best thing to do is nothing. I know a lot of girls who talk about everyoen as soon as they aren't around, so I just stopped talking to them. It sound sliek this girl is just trying to start Drama. If she gives you another note, as politely as you can, [Nothing sarcastic or even secretly rude] say maybe you two shouldn't be friends. Either she'll matue or she won't. But If she's causing stress, just try to get away from her.

Garnet · May 2010

Mkay, thats what I'm gonna do all next week then. Just ignore her and get through my last week of school without anymore drama.. Thank you guys all for your thoughts on this

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