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Do you accually HATE your siblings?

edited May 2009 in Vent
They say you cant hate family?, Its just sibling rivalry(sp?)!, You'll Grow out of it. <br>BUT; What if you do ACCUALLY hate your siblings..?<br>I Guess i dont HATE my sister; Severly dislike her, but not hate.<br>But dont get me started on my brother. I do; HATE him.<br>This started about 6 years ago. Money was tight and my mum couldnt afford to work and pay a sitter.. and of some reason he found beyond great enjoyment out of winding up and torturing his 11 and 9 year old sisters. This was start -minor- hate, he kept doing this for about 4 years, then he got handy with his fists, and i cant really remember much so im not going into it, but christmas was when i FINALLY desided that i hated him, he came (he doesnt live with us) up in a bad mood so whenever someone did the slightest thing he'd start a fight; christmas day he threw a metal dog bowl at my head; my sister elbow'd me in the chest; so he kicked me in shin- i fell over; he kicked me repeatedly in the stomach, This was because i slept in.. 25mins....?<br><br>He is deff what id describe as a money grabber. in the past 7 years he has had £49.5k off my mum.<br>Now.. ATM my mum is seriously ill.. to the point i had to argue the toss with her to try to get her into hospital. It worked. but in order for her to be able to go she needed someone to help with the buisness, we called my brother; first he said he'd only come up if she was accually in hospital, next he said hed only come up if that AND if she GAVE him £230 (which she did) Ive just found out she needs an op. but for the op she needs to be in for 6wks. that means 6wks of continuous HELL for me. as when hes here my sister joins in with the bulling .. i accually dont know if ill make it 6weeks, he only got here yesterday and i already want to kill myself..
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  • Wow,<br>I wouldn't consider to -hate- my brother or sister,<br>we fight,<br>but nothing major,<br>now I do have family that I refuse to talk to,<br>for certian reasons.<br><br><br>But, why don't you consider going to a friends?<br>Or another family member?<br>While your brother is in town.
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  • This may sound like dorky or stupid or whatever.. <br><br>But.. <br><br>I have -NO- friends. thats what makes it so hard.
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  • :|<br><br><br>Relatives?
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  • i kinda know what it feels like.. but your case is worse :( poor Muckeh.. when we were younger my sister used to hit me for no reason and stuff.. well she said i was winding her up.. but thats what you do when youre 5 :lol: . she almost broke my nose once. my brother has a anger problem.. he hits walls and stuff just because he cant get in the bathroom or something :roll: you can try living in the vp server XD... i hope you mum get better soon.. :) im rooting for her
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  • Just think of it this way. You'll live through the 6 weeks, then, go to school, and get a job. and have a life. Don't let 6 weeks ruin your entire life! (I use this on my self, except it's a year, not a month and a half)
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  • I seriously can say with a straight face, that I have no love at all for my sister. Apparently, it's mutual.<br><br>I can't stand her, and she can't stand me. We can't even <span style="font-style:italic">TALK</span> without fighting.<br><br>My theory is that it's our conflicting interests and personalities, because we are nearly polar opposites.<br><br>Me:<br>-Has a fair number of extremely close friends<br>-Loves playing insturments<br>-Likes a wide variety of music, no favourites<br>-LOVES to have intelligent conversation (Biotechnology, Animation, Science...)<br>-Would rather have a bf thats smart than a bf who's cute<br>-Brown hair, brown eyes<br>-Unique sense of style<br>-Horseback riding, soccer, football<br><br>Her:<br>-Has so many friends she can't name them<br>-Never played an instrument in her life<br>-Likes mostly pop, but also some rap and hip hop music<br>-Think's intelligent conversations are for nerds<br>-Wants a cute bf. Doesn't care if he's dumb as a post<br>-Blond, green eyes<br>-Dresses like the typical 6th grader who wants to be in highschool<br>-MAKEUP<br>-Soccer, dance<br><br>It also supports my theory to say that I am three years her senior...
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  • I can't actruly say i hate my brother, he sit in his man cave most of the day. but then i do see him he is really funny, but likes to annoy my by throughing gentle punches...
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  • From what you described it seems that this could have gone beyond bullying to domestic violence. Is there any way you can stay with a friend/relative? This is a horrible situation for you to be in. I hope that your mom gets better soon and that you find a solution.
  • Your brother is mentally ill. Nobody repeatedly kicks their younger sibling without a problem in their nervous system a.k.a. brain. You hating him is not the important thing, it is him who is the problem. You can literally phone the police on your brother if he does this to you again. There is no reason for him to do that, and like xtraordinary said, he is crossing the line from older-brother bullying into domestic violence. Do not be ashamed or nervous about calling the police; they are there to help you, not judge you. If you're worried about your brother hating you even more, it's worth the sacrifice to prevent yourself from being seriously injured physically and possibly emotionally.
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  • Thanks guys <br><br>I cant go anywhere, nor can i phone the police - No brother.. - No roof.. -No food .
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  • There are many sources of domestic violence - let's not underestimate a human's capacity for pure malicious intent.<br><br>Mucky, if you ever need to talk, we're here, and there are many domestic abuse hotlines that you may call anonymously and ask for advice. They have seen it all before, and may have a shred of wisdom to help you cope if you can't take more official action. In fact, most of the ones I know of are toll-free, meaning you can call from a payphone and no one will be the wiser.
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  • The easiest thing to do is to see if you can start going somewhere after school (library, playground ect.).
  • I dont go to school. i work. but he works the same time so were at home together.
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