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"Dog Lovers" that know nothing about dogs...

edited August 2013 in Vent
Being of college age, I know a lot of people who consider themselves "Dog Lovers" but most of these people don't seem to understand what a dog is.<br><br>For example, I have a friend who insists on feeding her dogs the highest quality food available. Which would be fine if 'highest quality' didn't mean 'most expensive' to her. She feeds her dogs those Cesar Meals, which have an extremely high moisture content. She also does not provide them with dry food or chew hooves/ bones to clean their teeth on which causes her dogs to develop gum infections quite often.<br><br>Or the people who feed their dogs all the food they want, and whatever food they want. This one is very close to me, because this is exactly what happened to my dog before I got her. Her old owners would just feed her until she could eat no more (I am assuming, I never met them). She is a beagle, which in good health weigh 25-30lbs, however when I got her she was nearly 45lbs. She got winded walking more than a few feet and could not jump up onto the couch on her own. By feeding her the portions of dog food recommended by the brand I feed her I have been able to get her back down into the healthy range in only about six months. <br><br>The same goes for feeding your dog too many table scraps. A small piece of meat here and there is not a bad little treat, but there is such thing as too much! I was visiting with a friend of mine, who has a larger dog, and in addition to the dog's regular serving of food, he gave it an entire pack of bacon. That would be like letting your child have an entire chocolate cake along with it's dinner, it just isn't good!<br><br>And it isn't just food, it's training and discipline as well. My father's girlfriend has two chihuahuas who she has spent hundreds of dollars on professional training classes for, and none of them took. She wonders why, but she requires no discipline from her dogs. She does not take them for walks very often, she does not even correct them when they bite her! When my father and I visit, she is always shocked that her dogs behave around us, but it's because we do not baby them.<br><br>My ex has a very large coonhound puppy, a very high energy breed. The dog drove him crazy, he insisted it was stupid and untrainable and just an all around bad dog. During the time he and I were together I managed to teach the dog to walk on a leash without pulling, to sit and shake and a few other tricks, and he was amazed by the transformation. I ran into them at the dog park a few weeks ago and the dog is right back to her old antics because he will not be dominant with her.<br><br>So, in short, treat your dogs the way you'd treat your kids. Feed them health foods in healthy servings, do not spoil them, and give them some discipline (but not too much).<br><br>Sorry this rant is so long, I've just been seeing it a lot lately. :/
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  • Dogs having the best food availible doesnt mean the most expensive or what humans eat just the best quality and correct amounts and exercise, same goes with humans i guess ,i agree about people who claim to be dog lovers yet dont really seem to know how to look after a dog or even how to properly discapline it (might have spelt that wrong)
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  • Ha yeah I know how you feel!<br>I'm currently undergoing a course called 'animal studies'; learning basic care, behavior and about general animals like your average pets, and despite that plus having a certificate that qualifies me as a 'rookie' canine behaviorist, my friends still argue with me over things like nutrition and why their dog barks. <br>It's just so frustrating! They treat me like I'm just impressing my own views on them when I'm just telling them the technical facts.<br>Often you just have to keep your mouth shut; if it's not your dog than it's not your problem.<br><br>Fact:<br>The better quality food you feed your dog, the less you have to feed them. So whilst a better brand may seem more expensive, the price often levels out because you're feeding them smaller meals, therefore having to buy less.
  • It can be frustrating to have to deal with people like that, but you have to remember that just because you love something doesn't make you an expert. My mother loves animals, but every time I bring my dogs over she gets bossed around by them because she doesn't quite understand how to be firm with them without being mean or harsh. Those people probably do love their animals, and have good intentions, but may not be as knowledgable or maybe just not as dedicated to animals as others.<br><br>On one end of the spectrum you have "dog lovers" that own dogs, rescue dogs, foster dogs, work at animal shelters, buy fresh meats grains and veggies and homecook their dogs' meals, go to veterinary school, become certified animal behaviorists, AND are quality breeders trying to improve a specific breed or two. Then on the other end you have "dog lovers" that may occassionally watch Animal Planet and just generally think dogs are great companions, even though they choose not to keep any pets of their own. You can't say that one "loves" more than the other, just because one is more consumed by the love or because they choose to express their love differently.<br><br>Most "dog lovers" fall somewhere in the spectrum. But everybody has different levels of understanding and some may just not want to devote time, money, and energy into their dogs. The same way some parents choose not to feed their kids the best, most wholesome foods and enroll them in the best schools and buy them the best clothes, toys, etc. It doesn't mean they don't love their kids, maybe they just have different priorities. Just be glad they actually do love their dogs and aren't seriously neglecting or abusing them 8)
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  • I guess it depens on your meaning of "Dog Lover", to me, I see that word as the person loves dogs, and its their kinda of animal, it dose not mean they have to know a thing about dogs, they just love that animal.<br>Just like Bryson said "just because you love something doesn't make you an expert"<br><br>I'v have people say to me at the beach while with my APBT, going "Oh we are dog lovers!" "is he Aussie Cattle Dog cross???" that brings up the why there should be no BSL.<br><br>It just makes me wonder how little time people even put time into studying dogs, being breeds, diet, training, socialisation.<br><br>Its understand able though, I'v met so many people around here with dog agressive dogs because they never socialize them, yet say dogs are there thing and mean the world to them.
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  • My Pit Bull and Akita both have seperate amounts they eat and I only put their food down at certain times during the day. Plus make sure they get plenty of outside time and exercise! :)
  • <span style="color:#400080">Ahh I know exactly where you're coming from with this rant. I know quite a few people who follow the patterns you described. Drives me crazy and here I am, I've had dogs my whole life and while I'm not expert on them am quite knowledgeable about them. do they listen to me or take my advice? No. I know a lady who always fed their little dog nothing but table scraps. This dog was extremely ill mannered and had quite severe guarding issues that they thought was "cute" -__- They finally started feeding the dog a nice kibble but "have" to hand feed it to him and get him in his guard mode before he eats. this dog has bitten them a few times. Its beyond insane. </span>
  • I have people in my family like this. >.< Aunts specifically.
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