Why would you ever say that?

wetnose101 · October 2011

so i hve 2 bffs (i thought) then lets call the first girl su, Su tells lets call her melissa i hate her.so when the bell rang and i was packing melissa walked by and said" i am not gonna be your friend no moe because Su said that you said in your house you hate me" then Su made this wicked grin then i was like what??? so i walked outside then asked What are you talking about? melissa said " i m not going to talk to you. " i said," Su is lying! ive been your BFF for 6 years.So who are you going to believe ,Su , who you have been friends for 1 year or me?" then she looked at Su and she was making her "haha loser im her BFF now!'' face and melissa caught her and she didnt say anything.she walked away and i started crying then this random person said "i voted for you " (btw i won for publicity commissioner) so i covered my face with my poster and then my mom said " what are you crying bout? i said " its nothing..." then she said " is it your friends?" i said yeah,then my mom said what happened?' I said Su told Melissa i hate her.." -sobbing my eyes out- then my mom stomped over there ( which is embaressing.) anf tyhen made her apoligize. she did and she (meaning SU) started crying. then i said " ...sorry... then she said." whatever." -sob- melissa was just standing there sniffling. she really didnt apoligize (su) Now she gonna have to earn her trust back. What should i do now?

Mileysmybaby · October 2011

This doesn't sound too good of a situation. Su is your friend? She sounds like she is just using other people to make you mad.

wetnose101 · October 2011

since kindergarden... ive been friends with Su.

Mileysmybaby · October 2011

Wow, I would say you need to talk to Su privately and ask her why she said that.

Animal Lover1996 · October 2011

In 8th grade, my good friend since we were about 9 years old, started spreading rumors about me and it kept escalating until she was running up and pulling my friend's away when I was talking to them. I had thought she was my friend but something changed. She still hates me three years later and me and my REAL best friend think that she might be jealous because 1) She is very sheltered and I'm not 2) She is not nice to all the boys so none of them like her but they are friend's with me because I'm nice to them and 3) Im not afraid to dress like a hippie and she doesn't have the courage to get out of a tshirt and jeans (or she isn't allowed to). So, if it's possible that Su is just jealous of you, I would suggest at least -trying- to talk to her about it and resolve the situation. But if you ever need to talk, I'm here(:

Cherokeezbaby · October 2011

I know the feeling. My couson (lets call her England cause that is where we are from) and I had a party at England's house and it moved to the river that is in the middle of my neighborhood and the neighborhood that most of our friends live in. Well one of the girls (lets call her China since we are already using countries as names lolz) had a bf, who she had gone to his house and been gah-gah for just the day before. Well she had a crush on one of the guys (lets call him Africa) and was ALL OVER him!! Well England and I tried to correct her, so no one would get hurt but she called us a few bad names in which I am not repeating and just kept going on with flirting. Well I had to go home before I went back to England's house to get some of my things that I needed for church. When I got back China and Africa were on the swing kissing and "snuggling" (she was practicly in his lap). Well I ask China if England was home and she just glared at me like I was he one who was doing wrong. I went into England's house and tell her and we call her bf and long story short, he dumps her. Well even to this day China takes this out on us. She spreads rumors around about me or atleast tries to. My family got tired of hearing things from people at work that their kids had told them and called China's parents. They told her that I was stalking her at school and texting her with nasty messages!! I don't like her, so why would I want to "stalk" her?! The parents filed charges on me and when they reviewed my phone history and the videos from the school proved that she was lying. Everyone tells me she only did this to me because: 1.) She is very sheltered because she is a sneeky, lying child towards her grandparents who took her in. 2.) She in not thought of as being attractive. (I am not a topping-the-scale type of girl, but I atleast bathe) 3.) She knows that her bf is cheating on her and my bf is commited to me and me only. 4.) She likes my bf and he HATES her after what she put me through.

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