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Why do I always get caught in the middle.. :(

edited July 2011 in Vent
Tommorrow I'm suppose to be going back to my Mom's house since school starts in 4 days. <br><br>My mom has been trying to get ahold of my dad and he refuses to talk to her, so she is blowing up my phone saying she is going to turn my phone off if I don't answer. My dad says I can't answer, and he won't fight his own fight, so everyday I have to cover for him. Finally he lets me talk to her and she is so mad at me. I tell her did't have my phone because I left it with my dad when I went somewhere with my friend so he could call you. Which was partly true. She was yelling at me telling me she pays my phone bill so I should answer. I'm only ___ yrs old and its summer!! I'm not going to have my phone on me 24/7. So thanks to my dad refusing to talk to my mom and my mom over reacting I might loose my phone and all my plans I made to hang out with my friends since I haven't seen them all summer. And my momm and stepdad are mad because I enjoyed myself with my dad!! They send me here and expect me to hate it, and I'm not going to. I like things at my dad, its normally very laid back. I know as soon as I see my mom and my stepdad they are going to start nagging me constantly. Plus not to mention my head is killing me and I sprained my ankle yesterday night. So I wasn't feeling the bestest. <br><br>I just wish my dad would deal with my mom, and that my mom and stepdad would listen to what I have to say, I'm just a kid, I can't control every aspect of my hectic life!!!!!!!!! <br><br>I'm scared to go home tommorrow....... I was semi happy... now I just don't want to go home period.... I'm don't won't to deal with my mom and stepdad. The only good part is that I only have 4 days till school starts... SoI'll be able to avoid it a good bit since My mom and stepdad are working now... I'll be babysitting my sis....and maybe my bro (which is a big ordeal and is why my mom is mad because he was suppose to stay with my dad, but at the last minute he tells her 4 days before school starts that he has to come home with us!! I understand its short notice.... I just hate being caught in the middle!)
SmiLe :)

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Comments

  • Maybe try waiting until things cool down and talk calmly with your mom about the situation or maybe even write her a note explaining you really feel stuck in the middle because your dad says one thing and she says another and you don't want to be disloyal or disrespectful to either her or your dad.
    <span style="background-color: rgb(255, 204, 0);">Along for the ride!</span><br>
  • Thank you, but I will be going home tommorrow, which includes the drive back home with my mom and possibly me stepdad. So all through the way they will be asking about everything this summer...... I'll do my best on handling them..and I really hope my sd isn't there because then it would be alot easier.... I just hope thingss get better.
    SmiLe :)

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