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My Family is The Devil

edited May 2011 in Vent
Ok so I have posted several times about these problems with my aunt's family and my family. Well they hate us. Recently my mom tried to explain to me that they are only jealous because:<br>My mom is skinny, her sister is fat. My mom had kids before her so therefore the excitement of finally having grandchildren wore off before it got to her kids. We have tons of friends (because we're nicer than them). Me and my sisters are well behaved where as, her kids are the devil. There are several more I can't think of at the moment but as you can see, it's been going on for awhile. My sister, who is now almost 11, used to come home crying from my aunt's house because of something she said to her. Now, she is verbally attacking my 7 year old sister. A few examples might help you to see what I'm talking about.<br><br>Last week, my mom had to take a puppy to someone's house to be heartworm tested and she had discussed -the night before- that my aunt was going to take Reese (the seven year old) to softball practice when she took her daughter Alyssa (also seven). Well, we were all helping uncover the pool when Reese said "So you're taking me to practice right aunt Merit?" and Merit says *sighing* "Well it's just another thing -I- have to do but I -guess- could -manage- it!" (keep in mind Reese and Alyssa are on the same team) and Reese goes "Well...you kind of have to..there's no one home to take me." and Merit whirls around in her face and says in this snotty voce she uses all the time "I don't -have- to do IT!!!" Then proceeds to take her children home while my grandma stands there and does absolutely NOTHING!!!!! Well later when my mom gets home and hears about this, she calls Merit and is -sickly- sweet in thanking her for taking Reese to practice (my grandma had called and conviced her to take Reese) Merit was like "Um well uh your um uh welcome." and it was quite amusing lol. <br><br>Another example of her attitude is the thing with Bella her extremely aggressive Lab mix foster. She agreed to lock her up 2 Moths Ago!!! Well, needless to say, that lasted about a week because Merit "felt sorry for her" being locked up In this huge pen! A big storm came through and Bella went missing. Me and mom didn't feel the least bit sorry for them. Only for the dog. Later she turned up at the pound. Merit still REFUSES to lock her dog up! On Easter, I was sitting on the porch with my Bibi (grandma) aunt Alecia (good friends with Merit they are like two peas in apod and even act the same) and Merit. Callie, my little Toy Fox Terrier had jumped the fence and I spotted her in my grandma's yard (me Bibi and merits family live on one long driveway so mine and bib's yards are connected while merit's is a little down the driveway) just at the same time Bella spotted her. I jumped up as Bella ran full force at my baby and I yell "Oh my lord I have to go get her before Bella does!" (if you didn't already know Bella has attacked Callie three time already in MY yard) and when I get baack Merit says "Uh, You don't have to get her Bella would NEVER hurt her!!! It only happened once!" and so I said "Actually, it has happened three times and it's going to happen again if I let it." So merit, yelling now, says "THE THREE OTHER PEOPLE WATCHING SAID HANNAH AND CALLIE WERE RIPPING BELLA APART AND WERE GOING TO KILL HER IF I HAD T HAVE SAVED HER!!!!!" I know that's a load of Bull Crap because I was watching out the window the second time when Bella went after Callie and so Hannah tried to pull Bella off Callie, her baby sister (Hannah is an 85 pound lab mix). I am yelling now too: "I SAW WHAT I SAW OK!!!" and Bibi (who always wants to keep peace but SO knows Merit is lying because she was there) says "Now Baylee Merit knows what she's talking about. Hannah did try and kill Bella." I couldn't believe my ears so I grab my stuff and my dog and say "I'm going home now!!!" and Merit yells "Fine!!! Go Home Then!!!" and Alecia, who sat that smirking the whole time we were yelling at each other, starts laughing!!! <br>When I got home, I had a meltdown. This has gone on for FOURTEEN YEARS!!!!!! My mom tried to console me by telling me about her theory of them just being jealous of us but I didn't really believe her. When my dad got home from seeing his grandma in the hospital, I told him and that's the first time I have ever heard him actually curse in front of me. He was telling my mom "I have a mind to go over there and mess up all their (beep)!!! Because your MOTHER shouldnt have just sa there and let Merit get all up in my daughters (beep)!!!" My mom went over and had a talk with Bibi about standing up for people when she knows who os right. <br><br>I later found out that Merit told everyone that she and Alecia jumped up and ran to get Bella before she got Callie but I just pushed them out of the way and said "BELLA IS GOING TO RIP CALLIE TO SHREDS!!!!!!" and then I started screaming about how Bella attacks Callie every time she sees her!!! I knew she would lie but it still surprised me. Bibi dud t say a thing even when she lied to our WHOLE FAMILY on EASTER!!! I have decided that I am no longer speaking to Merit. She ruined Christmas the year before last and my birthday last year and my Cohen on my dads side ruined last christmas so I am DONE with this family!!!!! <br>My parents have been talking about moving to a smaller house lately and we even found one, if only the house payment was TWICE as much as ours. So me and my parents decided me and mom are going to research online and fnd houses to go look at while we try and sell ours. I want to move AWAY from this problem I have lived next door to for FOURTEEN YEARS!!!!!<br><br>Sorry for such a long vent I just really felt the need to get this off my chest and know what others thought abot my problem.
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  • if only the house payment *wasn't* twice as much sorry lol.<br><br>And also, my parents feel it's wrong for a grown woman to be picking fights with seven and fourteen year olds.<br><br>I will let everyone know how the whole "moving" situation turns out.<br>Also, it's supposed to be my COUSIN on my dads side lol stupid spell check!
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  • Today, our foster group did an adopt-a-thon at a local pet store. Of course my aunt came and brought her dogs, Claire, Carson, Ella, and Bella. Now Bella is the one who has attacked my dog several times. She tried to attack FOUR different dogs today, and yet my aunt still described her to adopters as "the most gentle dog you will ever meet, only a little food aggressive". What the crap?! Tommorrow is my sisters bday and not everyone could make it for lunch tomorrow so we had dinner with grandma tonight. Well, Emily my 6 month old Rat Terrier mix got out of her pen and was at Bibi (grandma) 's house. Well, Bella saw Emily and took off after her. Now I have seen the same thing happen the three times she has attacked my other dog so I run after her screaming and Nathan my uncle jumped the deck fence and ran after them too. Everyone thought she was going to get emily. Then Nathan yells "It's ok they're just playing!" So I stop running and relax a little. And merit says "Why did you run after her?!" and me and Bibi were like "Well it kind of looked like Bella was going to get Emily" so Merit turns around and yells at her kids "Cmon girls get out of the pool we've got to take our DANGEROUS dog home!!!!!" and Bibi say "Well why are you leaving?" and Merit screams at her mother "WELL WHAT AM I SUPPOSED TO DO?!?! LOCK HER UP?!?!?!" Hmmmm.....yes!!!! Sometimes I think they have no brains. Later that evening I got mad because she had been ugly like that and took Emily upstairs so I could take her home. I started telling my dad and Epaw (grandpa) what happened. And I was saying that she had looked the same way when she went after Callie and hurt her so badly. Epaw says "Baylee I was THERE Callie ran after Bella and started attacking her and Bella was just defending herself!!!" Bullcrap. He was on a softball trip when it happened. My mom even said he wasn't there when any of it happened. So I get in a fight with Epaw and he continues to tell me practically that I don't even know what happened and I WAS THE ONLY ONE OUTSIDE I CALLED MY MOM OUT WHEN IT HAPPENED!!!!! I can't even stand to be AROUND my mothers family anymore!!!<br>Also since I have been thinking about birthdays lately I thought I'd share with y'all how Merit ruined my last bday. <br><br>My favorite place to eat (besides Ruby Tuesday) is Waffle House. So I wanted to go there for breakfast with my fam on my birthday. Well Merit starts complaining "I don't like it there. The food is horrible. They smoke there I don't want my children to be around smoking people." and I have to settle for Cracker Barrell on MY birthday!!!! I am going to Waffle House this year (or iHop) and SHE is not invited because I will be at the beach on my brithday. NO ONE CAN RUIN IT!!!!! I hate my family >:(
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  • I am so sorry about your situation (I guess you would call it). Sometimes I feel that way but my issues aren't near as bad...
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