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Happy Happy Vent

PurpleChickenPurpleChicken
edited March 2011 in Vent
A post I made on a diffrent site> I love when you relize all the friends you thought where hating on you stick up for you, and show you why your still call them your friends ♥<br> <br> For a long time my friends and I have been drifting apart. Ive grown depressed and not fun to be around and stuff. But I had an issue with some rotten girls publicy humilting me on my site when allll of my friends came to my defense, even messaing me they loved me (: I feel so loved, and my self asteem just boosted up loads. My dads been nicer, and I chouldnt be more happy!

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  • PurpleChickenPurpleChicken
    24.56.229.109
    Cant edit for some reason but I left this out><br> The part that boosted my self asteem so much was that people I thought didnt like me or I dont know well came on and and defended me. Theres like 200 post on the mean girls post! Yay (:
  • KittKattizeKittKattize
    99.246.179.188
    I can understand why you feel so happy. I was bullied myself and would find satisfaction when the bullier got a taste of their own medicine...<br><br>Does that make it right?<br><br>Not necessarily. I realize that she publicly humiliated you, but you shouldn't be going and doing the same to her. I know it's your friends posting, but you can ask them to stop. I know it is hard to do, but think of it this way... The victim has now become the bully. If you believe that a bully is low, why sink down to their level? I would just stop everything now, if it is your site I would suggest stopping this. Cyber Bullying is just as bad as the real thing and you can take it to the principal of your school, a teacher or a parent. Keep in mind, your friends are now bullying her too and might get in trouble.<br><br>Trust me, there will be times when you regret what you say or did to someone. Guilt is not something we should live with, neither is bullying or not having self-esteem. Be the bigger person and stop this before it gets out of hand because you don't know what will happen come Monday.
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  • PurpleChickenPurpleChicken
    166.137.139.204
    we didnt bully her back, every post that was made was saying they need to stop bullying, or how if they continue they"ll be reported. Thats a reason I was so happy, because it was handled so maturly, wich ussaly isnt the case. Even when they chatted me I handled it well. I guess thatz a big part of my happy! Im proud of myself and the other posters for<span style="font-style:italic">not</span> sinking to there leval.
  • PurpleChickenPurpleChicken
    166.137.139.204
    sorry for bad spelling, im on my iphone and I cant edit.
  • SunnyDaysDontLieSunnyDaysDontLie
    70.60.126.212
    You can't edit a vent post because if you say one of the naughty words that are banned on here in your anger, and you go back and edit, then you don't get into trouble for something that you should have gotten in trouble for.
    "I am carrying all my hatred and contempt for power, its laws, its authority, its society, and I have no room for guilt or fear of punishment."-Diego Rios
    Semper Fi.
  • LonleycarrotsLonleycarrots
    24.56.229.109
    Oh wow, I always wondered why 0.0 Thanks Sunny!
  • PurpleChickenPurpleChicken
    24.56.229.109
    ^^^ from me, it automatically logged me on my old account ,and I didnt notice. Grrr, darn this computer!
  • SunnyDaysDontLieSunnyDaysDontLie
    70.60.126.212
    No problemo :P And, because I have no friends [LOL kidding. I have like a handful], I take self satisfaction in the bullies that are now the bullied.
    "I am carrying all my hatred and contempt for power, its laws, its authority, its society, and I have no room for guilt or fear of punishment."-Diego Rios
    Semper Fi.
  • PurpleChickenPurpleChicken
    24.56.229.109
    Ehh, in a way I do and in a way I dont. I dont like seeing them be bullied, the only thing I like is when someone who thinks theyre loved so called a popular student, finally has someone stand up to them and relizes they need to change. Thats the only part I like, but I dont like seeing them actully be bullied. Ive been in that posiston before, through elementary I was a bully, and decided to change. I was nicer, and accepted more people, but then it backfired and I felt bullying on myself, and It was extra hurtfull because I had already relized what I'd done, and decided to change. Luckily im fine now, but that did teach me a life lesson called Karma.
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