Howdy, Stranger!

It looks like you're new here. If you want to get involved, click one of these buttons!

My Sucky Life =P

edited March 2011 in Vent
<span style="color:#8000FF">Ok so there is this girl, we will call her Sue, whom I have know since we were like, 10. Well, up until we were 12, she was perfectly fine, nice, polite, etc. Now, Sue wasn't "allowed" to do alot of things I was (watch certain tv shows, listen to certain music, wear things that were "provacative" and such) and she was, I guess, a little bit jealous. When we were 12, I decided that I wanted to be known as "different" so I started doing and wearing things a little bit...out of the ordinary. One day, right after my 13th birthday, (I had gotten purple high lights for my bday) I wore my mom's old miniskirt prom dress, a black tshirt, black leggings and boots with belts on them. I saw Sue that day and what does she do?! She calls me "The Bride of Frankenstein", "Medusa" and other things like that! I was a little bit mad but I brushed it off. Later that day, me and my best friend wrote a fake love letter to one of my friends, we'll call him John. I snuck the note into John's backpack and when he read, he knew it was from me and supposed to be a joke and we had a good laugh about it. Well, Sue did -not- think it was a joke. She went around spreading rumors -mean ones- about me and John. Things like, well, I don't know exactly what was said but my parents knew about it and said it wasn't good. She continued spreading rumors about me and dissing my outfits and my sense of humor (I have a strange one lol) and stuff like that. This went on for about a year and a half. I tried tactics like being nice to her, avoiding her and other things but nothing worked. My mom took me to a counselor it got so bad. The counselor helped and I was finally confident enough to go back to church, youth and other things where I knew I would see Sue. It has been almost a year now and the comments about my outfits are starting to happen again. I am about to get my hair cut and dye it Hayley Williams orangey-red so wish me luck (my hair goes halfway down my back and is golden blonde). To this day, Sue's mother thinks she is a perfect angel. Yeah right :roll: Please help me with some comebacks I can use or ways to help myself feel confident!</span>
51rezb.jpg
"I feel infinite." -The Perks of Being a Wallflower

Comments

  • Hmm, so you want to sink to her level? I don't think that's a good idea. I'd just ignore her.. Of course, that's what I tell everyone. But the last thing you want to do is to start calling her names back, that only makes you look as bad as her and might escalate the situation to where you both end up in trouble.<br><br>Just keep telling yourself she must be insecure and have a very boring life if all she can think to do is pick on you. Don't tell her or anyone else that, word will get back to her, then she'll know she's getting to you and it'll get worse. Someone asks about the situation, tell them you have no idea, but it doesn't matter because she doesn't matter to your life.
    <span style="background-color: rgb(255, 204, 0);">Along for the ride!</span><br>
  • Thanks Bama c: The thing I haven't tried is ignore and pretend she doesn't get to me so I will try that.
    51rezb.jpg
    "I feel infinite." -The Perks of Being a Wallflower
Sign In or Register to comment.