I don't care how nice he is.

ChibiWerewolf · October 2010

So today, I was asked to go to homecoming by this boy. I barley know him, I'm not attracted to him physically or mentally and in fact, I just got finished telling him I don't want to go with him, and I know what's coming. An onslaught of "WHY DON'T YOU WANNA GO WITH HIM!!! HE'S SO NICE!!". How dare anyone. Anyone. Try to shame another person because they don't like who in your opinion think is nice. No one should have to feel forced to go to an event with someone they don't even like just because their friends say he's nice. If he's so nice why don't you go with him? It's not just that they're going to get on my case about that, but quite a few people knew that he was going to ask me and didn't tell me because they said it was going to be a "surprise". No, you didn't tell me so when he asked I would be backed into a corner and feel mean if I said what I really thought. Now I don't want my first homecoming to be ruined by awkwardness, and he sits next to me in math. I'm so mad. Someone should have told him I didn't want to go with anyone. I've told everyone that, and yet they allowed him to ask me so it becomes my job to reject him. People make me so mad sometimes.

Mileysmybaby · October 2010

wow .. that will prob make him mad but i would do the same thing..considering i like a guy and like no one knows lol

Mossflower · October 2010

I had similar trouble once, but the poor guy didn't take it at all well. He got all teary eyed and upset, and everyone thought I had been completely horrible to him >.> I don't know why people believe that they have a right to stick their noses in someone elses business like that. This might not be very comforting right now, but people seem to be more respectful of your choices as you get older. Hopefully you can get through this without too much awkwardness and maybe afterwards it won't seem so bad. <3 ...Yeah. That was my attempt at being helpful and comforting. I'm sorry xD

RoyalRaccoon · October 2010

I agree, you shouldn't go with him if you don't want to. It's YOUR choice. I also think it's bad that people knew, but did not let you or the boy know, so that neither of you had to go through that.

Mossflower wrote:

I don't know why people believe that they have a right to stick their noses in someone elses business like that. This might not be very comforting right now, but people seem to be more respectful of your choices as you get older. Hopefully you can get through this without too much awkwardness and maybe afterwards it won't seem so bad.

I completely agree with this.

ChibiWerewolf · October 2010

Mossflower wrote:

I had similar trouble once, but the poor guy didn't take it at all well. He got all teary eyed and upset, and everyone thought I had been completely horrible to him >.> I don't know why people believe that they have a right to stick their noses in someone elses business like that. This might not be very comforting right now, but people seem to be more respectful of your choices as you get older. Hopefully you can get through this without too much awkwardness and maybe afterwards it won't seem so bad. <3 ...Yeah. That was my attempt at being helpful and comforting. I'm sorry xD

Your actually quite helpful Moss! xD Thank you. I hope this boy doesn't get all teary-eyed. I don't handle crying well, I'd probably get all weird and walk away as he's crying, and look like a big monster. Stuff like this has happened before to me. This boy once asked one of my friends "Do you like Chibi likes me?" and just to be nice to him she said I did! Wasn't he surprised when I told him I had zero interest in him? and @ Sushi: I think the absolute worst part about it was that nobody told me he was going to ask. At least then I would have had time to prepare a nice "I don't want to go with you" speech. People are really mean, and telling me to go with him is also rude on their behalf because all they were thinking about was the boy's feelings. Not mine. They didn't think about it from both sides, and apparently didn't know I won't pitty date people.

NickelbackLuver · October 2010

I find this semi funny (not for you, because I'm sure that'd be a difficult situation...) but i waited all of high school for someone to ask me to a dance or something, and it never happened. I just find it odd how other people have issues with other people asking them xD Poor Chibs, though. I'd be mad at my friends too... one time they set me up on a 'blind date' with some guy, and it was beyond awkward and I did end up walking away on him... right in the middle of a conversation pretty much. It was beyond awkward... especially when they tried to get us to talk AGAIN. i was like "Uhm.. it didn't work at all the first time, why the hell do you think it will now?" So...yeah, friends causing awkward situations suck >.< I wish you luck with it ;D Hopefully he will just drop it and move on, though.

Shibagirl · October 2010

I hate that I mean really. It's better to reject someone for not liking them then lead them on.. You can't just go out with someone just because they're 'nice' XD Some people I'm on your side

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I don't care how nice he is.

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