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Garnet · August 2010

Joey leaves for college tomorrow.. and im crying my eyes out.. have been off and on for the passed two days.. i dont know how im gonna survive without him =/I know i will.. its just going to be hard.. i cant stand being away from him for a whole week at a time.. I know.. im pathetic.. i just cant help it.. im going with him and his momma tomorrow to move him into his dorm.. then i MIGHT see him sunday before we both start school monday.. im so depressed right now..

lovefrompaige · August 2010

*huggles* You can always text me girl if you need someone to talk to. I feel bad that I haven't been on in a while to talk to ya. So if I'm not on, and you need someone to talk to, I'm always a couple of digits away. I'll listen

Minx · August 2010

lovefrompaige wrote:

*huggles* You can always text me girl if you need someone to talk to. I feel bad that I haven't been on in a while to talk to ya. So if I'm not on, and you need someone to talk to, I'm always a couple of digits away. I'll listen

She really is! She ALWAYS answers xD

lovefrompaige · August 2010

VampireVenom wrote:

lovefrompaige wrote:

*huggles* You can always text me girl if you need someone to talk to. I feel bad that I haven't been on in a while to talk to ya. So if I'm not on, and you need someone to talk to, I'm always a couple of digits away. I'll listen 

 She really is! She ALWAYS answers xD

*whispers* o.o . . . always. . . *disappears*

Garnet · August 2010

Thank you bobbers! I really do need my friends right now! I feel like he is going to find someone better than me!! I'm so scared..

lovefrompaige · August 2010

He didn't give you the ring for nothing. You two are so cute together and I can tell you two really care for one another. Just remind him how much you care for him when he's gone. Send him little random texts sometimes just saying that ya miss him or something.

It should all be good. Have faith in your man lmao XD

Sea Oats · August 2010

Eek. Don't think like that! You just have to remember, he'll be home for holidays and I'm sure as many weekends as he can be and you'll get to see him.

My boyfriend is in the Navy, and I've only gotten to see him about a total of a week and a half since last October, so at least you know he'll get to be home as much as he wants! How far away is his school from where you are? You could visit him, too.

Garnet · August 2010

@Sea: Omg! Only a week and a half?? How do you survive?? D= It's only about 30 minutes from here so I could go visit him, but I don't have my own car yet. He is gonna try to be home every Friday for the football games though! I feel REALLY bad for you though not being able to see you bf much!! D= @Bobbers: You can really tell just by pictures that we are good together? I feel like I'm not good enough for him sometimes.. Hah, I'll prolly text him in between my classes saying "I love you" or something. He has all morning classes so he will get outta his last class around 12-1 most likely. He said he's gonna wake up every morning around 7 to call me and talk to me before class.. So.. I guess it won't be TOO bad. I've just never been this close to anyone.. I mean, ask Vampy, I'm a totally different person now that I'm with him.. Different in a good way of course!

Sea Oats · August 2010

I deal, because I know that in the long run all of this will be worth it. We've been together for almost 3 years, so we're not letting this get to us. I know he loves me, and I wouldn't trade what we have for the world. What's a little bit of distance anyway? All distance does is make the heart grow fonder, and I truly believe that. I'm running off to marry him and whatnot after graduation anyway, so I just have to keep my head for another 10 months. ;p

Garnet · August 2010

Sea Oats wrote:

I deal, because I know that in the long run all of this will be worth it. We've been together for almost 3 years, so we're not letting this get to us. I know he loves me, and I wouldn't trade what we have for the world. What's a little bit of distance anyway? All distance does is make the heart grow fonder, and I truly believe that. I'm running off to marry him and whatnot after graduation anyway, so I just have to keep my head for another 10 months. ;p

Same!! Joey and I are getting married a few months after I graduate! =D

Kazuko · August 2010

As someone who got married a week before graduation, allow me to pipe up here: Don't rush into things. You may think once you're married it's all rainbows and bunny rabbits, but there's a lot more stress than one would imagine. ._. Little things become huge things- washing the dishes, cooking dinner, etc. It may just be because I married a military man myself, but please don't just get married because it seems like the fun, problem-solving thing to do at the time. I know I did, and Vi knows just how stressed I get now. xD You'll be fine, especially if you're only 30 minutes away. ._. My husband lived 30 minutes away from me, and for four years he drove back and forth on the weekends, and that was the only time I got to see him. Try being in separate states- now that's a tough one. =p You two will be just fine UNLESS you start getting super depressed and emo about not being able to see him every waking moment. xD Once you start being negative, it'll only go downhill. So instead don't think of the things you CAN'T do now, but think of the things you CAN do in the future, or HAVE done together in the past. ^^ Stay positive- do you think he wants you to be sad? =p

Garnet · August 2010

Kazuko wrote:

As someone who got married a week before graduation, allow me to pipe up here: Don't rush into things. You may think once you're married it's all rainbows and bunny rabbits, but there's a lot more stress than one would imagine. ._. Little things become huge things- washing the dishes, cooking dinner, etc. It may just be because I married a military man myself, but please don't just get married because it seems like the fun, problem-solving thing to do at the time. I know I did, and Vi knows just how stressed I get now. xD You'll be fine, especially if you're only 30 minutes away. ._. My husband lived 30 minutes away from me, and for four years he drove back and forth on the weekends, and that was the only time I got to see him. Try being in separate states- now that's a tough one. =p You two will be just fine UNLESS you start getting super depressed and emo about not being able to see him every waking moment. xD Once you start being negative, it'll only go downhill. So instead don't think of the things you CAN'T do now, but think of the things you CAN do in the future, or HAVE done together in the past. ^^ Stay positive- do you think he wants you to be sad? =p

I REALLY needed to hear that. I'm not expecting it to be rainbows and stuff ya know? I mean we already talk about sharing the dish duties and take turns cooking and stuff lol we talk about that kind of stuff a lot hehe is that good?? I have been getting more and more depressed lately and it bothers him. He wont even call me if im crying because it hurts him to hear me sad. Thank you Kaz! From now on im going to try and be happy and look forward to seeing him on the weekends!

Kazuko · August 2010

Before we got married, Vincent did all the cooking and cleaning up afterwards. Now it's me who does all the cooking and cleaning, and if I don't, he gets upset. xD He won't even wash a dish on the weekend without complaining. But that's just him. Communication is everything. Tell him if you're worried, explain WHY you're upset, and not just "because I won't see you as much". People can't read minds, so he'll need you to talk to him. Also, in relationships, never EVER assume. xD Bad things happen, yo. As long as you two are dedicated to helping each other out, and to being a TEAM, you'll be fine. ^^

Garnet · August 2010

Kazuko wrote:

Before we got married, Vincent did all the cooking and cleaning up afterwards. Now it's me who does all the cooking and cleaning, and if I don't, he gets upset. xD He won't even wash a dish on the weekend without complaining. But that's just him. Communication is everything. Tell him if you're worried, explain WHY you're upset, and not just "because I won't see you as much". People can't read minds, so he'll need you to talk to him. Also, in relationships, never EVER assume. xD Bad things happen, yo. As long as you two are dedicated to helping each other out, and to being a TEAM, you'll be fine. ^^

Okay, thank you.. His roommate, Ryan, told me yesterday that Joey talks about me a lot and says he loves me all the time.. I'm hoping that's a good thing. I do miss him and people at school make things worse.. This was in ONE classroom today in the span of, let's say, 30 minutes. Indigo: Danielle, how are you handling your boo not being here this year? Dillon: Yo, you okay with Joey being in college and not HS anymore? Nick: So hows Mr. um.. uh.. Malabicky! (Joey's last name) and when are you guys getting married? Kinsey: How is Joey? Don't you get sad without him here this year? I know they don't do it on purpose.. but it makes me want to cry when they ask me hose things, but I always force a smile and reply nicely so that they don't think they hurt me.. I mean, My friend Sheila told me today at Vampy's house that I've been zoning out a lot lately.. I'm just SO thankful for all of my friends..

Kazuko · August 2010

Tell them "I really miss him, and it reminds me just how much I don't like not having him here every time you mention him." My friends didn't really mention Vincent much to me while he was at bootcamp 'cause I got all teary-eyed and stuff. ._.; And my friends know if I cry, something's REALLY wrong. At least you're waiting until after HS to get married. Getting married IN highschool was the -worst.- I spent every. single. hour. For a week. Just answering questions. "Do you have pictures of the wedding?" "Where's the ring?" "Do you have pictures of your husband?" "Can we meet him?" "Are you moving?" "How was the wedding?" "Who would marry THAT?" (yes, I did get this. And yes, I did reply.)

Garnet · August 2010

Omg that must have sucked lol this class right now is epic (The one where those kids asked me about Joey) and it is hilarious! xD I've been laughing all period. I'm sorry that you had to go through this too! (Worse I know) I haven't talked to Joey since 9:30 YESTERDAY morning.. His phone got disconnected. He called his dad from the school phone (they only allowed to call parents on the school phones) and asked his dad to call me but his daddy forgot. So I called his mom crying this morning and asked if she had talked to him, I was so freaked out thinking that I had done something wrong, but she assured me that I hadn't and that Joey's phone was turned off until he renewed his contract. She told me that he was fine and that he even asked her if I could ride to the football game this Friday with him and his mother. So she talked to me and had me laughing. I haven't been this happy in a while!!! His momma made it better along with the help of everyone on here. She said that I could still come to their house and hang out with her and Joey's sister and they are going to take me to church every Sunday as well =D She told me to just find a hobby (like many people on here said as well) she likes to write and she likes to draw (many of her sons draw) and she invited me over for drawwing and just hangin out. I think of her as a second mother to me. I feel MUCH better

Thank you guys!!

HollyWood · August 2010

im not sure if this was suggested yet. Maybe if he has a computer with webcam.. video chat? :] I know when im away from my boyfriend for awhile (if im in another state or vacation) I use video chat to talk to him it makes me feel better :]

Garnet · August 2010

Holleywood wrote:

im not sure if this was suggested yet. Maybe if he has a computer with *edited*.. video chat? :] I know when im away from my boyfriend for awhile (if im in another state or vacation) I use video chat to talk to him it makes me feel better :]

He only has the campus computers and none of them have video chat capabilities =( I loved that suggestion though!!

Garnet · August 2010

I get to see Joey tomorrow!! =D YAY!!!

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