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Florida, Future In-laws, boyfriend, & College.

HibachiHibachi
edited May 2010 in Vent
I. Hate. Florida.<br>Back again, and after 2 days. I am sick of it!<br>Still 2 weeks before I go back to Alabama...it must be something in the air but I am miserable when I am here, not only emotionally but my eyes itch and I haven't felt to well ever since I got in. Not to mention for some reason my phone NEVER has signal. Me and my boyfriend do NOT get along at all when I am in Florida, it sucks.<br><br>Secondly, My boyfriends mom and step-dad are so freaking annoying. Plain and to the point. They dog on him all the freaking time and they are so uptight!<br>Not only that, but his mom was mocking my moms intelligence, when she also said the same thing that my mom did! Hypocritical. <br>College has me stressed, not mine - my boyfriends. Why? Because of his parents, they rushed him into a Community College and now they are rushing him into Auburn University. He wants me to move up there with him I can't because I can't afford a 500-700$+ rent on my own and if he would have waited until next year I would have more financial footing....but no, his parents. I can understand they want him to get a good education but good grief - as soon as he graduated in December he immediately started Spring classes, he's only had about a 3 week break from college after finishing his spring classes and he just started his summer classes Thursday, they don't give him a break whatsoever he made it through high school with like a 3.5 GPA, his ACT score was a 24, he finished his spring classes with a 4.0 GPA, he got accepted into AU vet school - one of the most competitive schools to get into, he has about 5k saved up. And all this time I have been right by his side and she thinks if I move to Auburn I will be a "distraction"...she also said that her husand (Jeffrey's step-dad) won't be happy when we move in together because when he was 17 his relationship didn't turn out too well.<br>UM, WTF?! Like I give two....on how his relationship went 80 years ago, this is NOT yours and your husbands relationship it is me and Jeffrey's.<br>We haven't had time to discuss marriage plans, the majority of our conversations are about living arrangements for college. I'm just sick and tired of it and can't wait for it all to be over with.<br>Not only that, my parents keep telling me I need to stay here. I'M NOT STAYING IN FLORIDA I HATE IT!<br><br>/end rant<br>cookies to those who read.

Comments

  • Celia_1234321Celia_1234321
    71.66.121.114
    *eat cookie happily* <br>that really sucks, i hate parent who stick their noses into to their children relationships, especialy when they aren't kids anymore.
  • HibachiHibachi
    97.104.112.161
    Celia_1234321 wrote:
    *eat cookie happily* <br>that really sucks, i hate parent who stick their noses into to their children relationships, especialy when they aren't kids anymore.
    <br><br>XD<br><br>I've basically been ignoring what everyone is saying about the living arrangements, my parents want me to stay here, my boyfriend wants me in Auburn...for once I would like to do something for myself. After the 17 months we have been together, I've sacrificed about 12 of those months to be with Jeffrey in Alabama, and I missed birthdays, graduations, etc. and he couldn't come down with me for a few days because his mom's birthday is Tuesday...she was making a big deal out of it. And guess what they will do on this oh so exciting night on her 40th birthday? Go out to eat. Just like they did last year. She's all about herself. She said a few days before I left to Jeffrey, "Your gonna be back on Tuesday right? Because it's the celebration of my birthday and we celebrate it all month remember" and me and Jeffrey where like uh....we didn't even know your birthday was coming up. XD<br>Not to mention mothers day JUST passed and he got her a 50$ gift card to her favorite restraunt and Jeffrey ALWAYS gets her something every other holiday of the year.<br><br>My parents always tell me not to get them stuff for the holidays that they don't need anything that it's only suppose to be about us, fortunately my parents live 600+ miles away from Alabama and if my parents ever get to know Jeffrey's parents well enough....well, lets just say that it won't be pretty. XD My parents are the goof balls, while Jeffrey's parents are the serious workaholics.
  • Celia_1234321Celia_1234321
    71.66.121.114
    Yeah, (: his mom sounds really annoying. i think its up to you what you and your boyfriend do not your parents. my boyfriend and i have been together for a year and 7 months almost and lucky my mom loves him and his parents love me. (:
  • GarnetGarnet
    75.88.1.160
    Omg. Wow this sounds so familiar.. This is almost just like Joey and I, Lava. My parents are the Have-fun-just-dont-get-in-trouble type and Joey's parents are the That-could-get-you-in-trouble-so-dont-even-think-about-it type lol He isn't even done with his senior year yet (next week is our last week) and they have a dorm for him and all his college classes set up. He has NO say in it at all.. They aren't really stuck up they are just.. Controlling and everythign has to be their way or they aren't happy. Ugh I feel your pain Lava.. lol
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  • HibachiHibachi
    97.104.112.161
    @Celia-Congrats! :D That's great that they like you! 8D <br><br>@Garnet-It's good to know I am not alone. XD Once school gets out and your life begins it doesn't get easier so be prepared for the worse.
  • GarnetGarnet
    75.88.1.160
    Thanks for that lol, So any tips on how to get my parents to let me go to Bay Town (about 4 hours from our house) with Joey to stay a week at his sisters house? So far all ive got is an "I dont know yet" from my mom and my dad ust walked away.. lol
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  • HibachiHibachi
    97.104.112.161
    Garnet wrote:
    Thanks for that lol, So any tips on how to get my parents to let me go to Bay Town (about 4 hours from our house) with Joey to stay a week at his sisters house? So far all ive got is an "I dont know yet" from my mom and my dad ust walked away.. lol
    <br><br>Your talking to the wrong person. XD<br>I grew up in a very strict Christian home and I get the "No moving in together until your married" talk all the time, as much as my parents are laid back, they have 0 trust and claim that living with Jeffrey is "wrong" at 18 and not married. :roll: Which sucks because I can't afford to live in Auburn due to I will only have 1 income not only to support myself, but my animals as well. But hopefully, after December we will be able to get some marriage work done and finally move in.<br>The best advice I can give is to just tell them that if they raised you right why are they so insecure that you are going to do something out of the way.<br>Not sure how it works on your parents, but my parents just make up some other excuses.
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