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Dont know.

edited March 2010 in Vent
I don't know what to do... I feel so bad for my dad.. we recently found out my mum (who i love and still find hard to believe whats happening) so my mum has been texting this other guy from her work.. and it's not good... <br><br>I'm so angry at her, I can't believe she's doing this, even if dad works 11 hour days and doesnt see her that much.. I just dont understand why she would do it to us..<br><br>And the guy shes txting! He know my little sister and me! he knows we have a good family, why is this guy suck a ****!?<br><br>Dad told me not to tell anyone but I don't know how I can't. I feel like going up to the guy and telling him that hes a home wrecker and telling everyone him and my mum work with so they get hated by everyone else.<br><br>Dad wants mum to leave but he still loves her and knows she wont be able to support herself let alone my 2 little sisters (my sisters will go with mum, just cause they are that kind of people... I dont blame them but i hope they realise whats happening)<br><br>I just dunno what to do... anyone else been in this kinda situation?

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  • <span style="color:blue"><span style="font-size:75">I hear ya. Theres really, nothing you can do but stay strong, for your sake and for your dads.<br>I can tell you love your dad, very much. And I know you love your mom too.<br>We're all human, and with that we all make mistakes. Its wrong for your mother to go behind your father's back like that.<br>And it must hurt him because of the betray and such. . . I know whats it like to be cheated on, if thats what you're getting at, <br>and I know what its like to have two parents are aren't getting a long and threatening to separate.<br>You need to understand that things happen. Bad things happen to really good people sometimes. You're not a lone in this world.<br>I'm sure you have very nice friends in RL that can help you deal emotionally with your situation and I know your dad loves you.<br>So be strong. You may even, if you haven't already, want to sit down one on one with your mother and tell her how you feel. Calmly and maturely.<br>You can also do the same with your dad. But remember, in the end, its really up to your parents if they stay together or not. Don't blame yourself for any!<br>None of this was your fault and you can't change whats already happen.<br>You have friends on VP who are here for you anytime <3<br>I wish you and your family good luck and all the best</span></span>
  • Thanks Bobbers =)<br><br>It just sucks not being able to tell anyone or sit my mum down and tell her how stupid she is, cuase I promised my dad I wouldnt say anything, so that really sucks.<br><br>Thankyou for all your help and support.
  • <span style="font-size:75"><span style="color:blue">You're most certainly welcome ^_^</span></span>
  • Something like that happened to me too, except it was my dad being the jerk.. And yea there's not much you can do.. If you can watch Japanese game shows.. They always cheer me up. Lol :D
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  • I'm not sure what that is lol but I watched I Survived a Japanese Game Show which is pretty much where the Japanese game hosts torment the Americans on the show because they'll do anything for money. Lol I may live in America but I am most certainly not one at heart... Lol
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  • Haha oh true... MXC is a japanese game show where they have to do all these obsticles and yeah they fail pretty good.
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