Unfair.

ChibiWerewolf · February 2010

My brother. My brother. My brother. He is my younger like, half brother. He is an embaressment to be even half related too. He has not one considerate bone in his body and he is extreamly selfish. He's not a young, tiny, kid like five or six. He's plently old enough to know what he's doing. When we found my grandma had diebetes, he cried, because we had to go to the hospital and he had to get off his playstation. He pretends to care about things, but there is always an underlining motivation that HAS to benifit him or he won't even pretend to care. I hate him so much. I'm not a hateful person, but I have plently of hate for him. It's not like I'm the only one either, my younger sister sees it too. She dosen't like him either. He has ADHD, which only makes his behavior worse, but no matter how many pills you give him there is no pill for being an inconsiderate brat. It's a day-to-day struggle to get him to take his medicene. He is the cause of 90% of my entire family's stress. He refuses to take his medicene before school and work for my mom and puts her in a horrible mood all day and when I come home (because I leave for school before anyone else leaves) my mom is yelling and screaming at everyone. And do you want to know what the real funny thing is? The real joke? He never get's my mom's full rath. When he's ruined her day, me or my sister get snapped at because of her mood. Not him. I hate him sooo much, you don't even understand. Most of you have normal families, with a normal annoying brother/sister or whatever. He's not just annoying, he's so much more. He never lisians, and purposely does what he's told not too. He's also concited, because my mom tells him how she thinks he's "handsome" and "cute" and so he know decides me and my sister are ugly. (Not to be concited, but neither of us are) He also tries to start fights, always. And we end up being in trouble for what he started. Whenever he is absent from our house it feels like a giant weight is off everyone's soldiers. We are happier, have a better time, my mom is in a 100% better mood. I just can't stand him. I wish he would be sent somewhere far away, like boot camp. He would crack the first day. He get's everything, everything. He comes home with 100$ new toys every weekend, when I have to ask 3 monthes in advance if I REALLY want something. I used to have my own bedroom. It was something I really needed, because I have one of those personalities where you become completley stressed if your around people for too long. Guess what happened to my bedroom? It's his now. This was my mom's excuse to give it to him: "He's getting older, he's going to need more space." HE DOESN"T EVEN SPEND TIME IN THERE!!!! AND I CAN'T SPEND TIME IN MY ROOM BECAUSE I HAVE TO SHARE IT WITH MY SISTER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I will ALWAYS be older than him, why won't I "need" more space!?! Why am I not as special to need my own room? He's a complete Momma's Boy, and he makes me stomach churn. He threatens me all the time saying "I could tottally beat you up!!" and the rest of my family encourages that saying things like "Chibi, you stop! One day he is going to be able to beat you up." And I look them right back and say "You don't know what your talking about. Be Quiet. By the time He's big enough to actually inflict damage on me, he'll be sent to jail. I hope he does hit me so he can be sent to jail. (:" Then I get grounded forever. Once, I will tell you, he threw the heavy TV-remote at me, hit me in the head, so I got up walked as calmly as possible to him, and punched him. Not even hardly. It took him five seconds from when he realized what happend to start crying like a infant. It's unfair to see him be the golden child, where if I did any of those things I'd be sent to boot camp. But in tiny certain ways, I guess I even it out.

Goldy · February 2010

I understand, I hope things get better. Maybe he'll get hit by a bus. *squee* jk

Jazz · February 2010

I know EXACTLY how you feel. My little sister, is 12, and she is THE BIGGEST BRAT alive. I hate her. I'm not even kidding. She has to be little miss perfect all the time, and she thinks she knows everything. She gets away with EVERYTHING. Once, she left her brand new phone outside in the rain and snow for almost a month -- guess what? She gets a new one. If I did that, I'd be phone-less until I could afford to buy a new one. She sits outside with her equally obnoxious little friends and rings the doorbell a million times, making my dogs go nuts, and then when I answer the door she just says "oh, I don't need to come inside, I was just bored", then when I leave she does it AGAIN AND AGAIN -- nope, no problem, she's just "being a kid." She breaks my stuff, throws away drawings and art I've spent hours on, and I never even get an apology. She's a spoiled little [this is a kid friendly site so I won't say it] She's probably get along great with your brother.

woodpecker · February 2010

My sister and I never used to get on. I'm younger, but she was yh golden child, never a foot out of place, according to my parents. And then she grew up.. She's now mature, (17) so we rarely fight.. I'm kinda close to her now... How old is he I know two people with ADHD.. (well, one def. Does, the other we think does) the one who does have it is perfectly nice if you don't annoy him, and the one who we think does is a total nut job. Seriouly. He's 9 now I think.. He is banned from our house (he's my mums friends son) he used to hurl abuse at my sister and me. He liked me square inthe face, gave me black eyes and cut open my forehead. So my brother Locke him in the conservatory and he threw himself at the door and nearly smashed it.. He may be like t because I dropped him down the stairs when he wa younger, but probably due to lack of disapline. It's like super nanny, it te way your parents treat you.. Although abusive bahaviour and threats cannot be compensated with ADHD... Chibs should Come and live with meh

ChibiWerewolf · February 2010

Paranoid Thoughts wrote:

I understand, I hope things get better. Maybe he'll get hit by a bus. *squee* jk

LMAO. Thank you Paranoid. xDD

woodpecker wrote:

My sister and I never used to get on. I'm younger, but she was yh golden child, never a foot out of place, according to my parents. And then she grew up.. She's now mature, (17) so we rarely fight.. I'm kinda close to her now... How old is he I know two people with ADHD.. (well, one def. Does, the other we think does) the one who does have it is perfectly nice if you don't annoy him, and the one who we think does is a total nut job. Seriouly. He's 9 now I think.. He is banned from our house (he's my mums friends son) he used to hurl abuse at my sister and me. He liked me square inthe face, gave me black eyes and cut open my forehead. So my brother Locke him in the conservatory and he threw himself at the door and nearly smashed it.. He may be like t because I dropped him down the stairs when he wa younger, but probably due to lack of disapline. It's like super nanny, it te way your parents treat you.. Although abusive bahaviour and threats cannot be compensated with ADHD... Chibs should Come and live with meh

Exactly! And YUS, I will live with you! By any chance, do you live in the UK or are you from there? You use alot of tearmanology people there use. xD ADHD, is not an excuse for bad behavior like you said. Very smart Woodeh.

Jazz wrote:

I know EXACTLY how you feel. My little sister, is 12, and she is THE BIGGEST BRAT alive. I hate her. I'm not even kidding. She has to be little miss perfect all the time, and she thinks she knows everything. She gets away with EVERYTHING. Once, she left her brand new phone outside in the rain and snow for almost a month -- guess what? She gets a new one. If I did that, I'd be phone-less until I could afford to buy a new one. She sits outside with her equally obnoxious little friends and rings the doorbell a million times, making my dogs go nuts, and then when I answer the door she just says "oh, I don't need to come inside, I was just bored", then when I leave she does it AGAIN AND AGAIN -- nope, no problem, she's just "being a kid." She breaks my stuff, throws away drawings and art I've spent hours on, and I never even get an apology. She's a spoiled little [this is a kid friendly site so I won't say it] She's probably get along great with your brother.

Oh, they'd probley get married. I'm so glad someone understands how I feel, especially because they're siblings and you can't get rid of them untill you are old enough to move somewhere yourself. I know parents love to say they don't have "favorites" but then why is it if we were to do the things they did, we'd get in trouble. No favorites...alright... Thanks Jazz. (:>

SunnyDaysDontLie · February 2010

Mmm. My brother sounds a tad bit like that. Whenever he doesn't get his way, he complains about how bad his life is, etc. But, I make plans with my boyfriend over the weekends about a week before I see him, maybe to go and see a movie or something, and mom'll have him put on a pair of PJ bottoms and flip flops, and he complains about that because he has to set down his xbox controller, when he's been playing that thing since seven in the morning and it's 10:30am now. And they get on me for being online 95 percent of the time. He never comes out of his room, he's always playing either the Wii or the Xbox or MY Gamecube, which he ruined all my games for it and it wont run anymore ;-; And when he breaks one of the controllers for the game consoles, because he slams them down all the time when he loses, they buy him another one without even asking. I'm like. Damnit. -_-

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