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Some People Don't Understand [Luckily some do :)]

ShibagirlShibagirl
edited November 2009 in Vent
Well the day before the county fair me and my dog 4h group were preparing for fair. I hadn't been able to make it to a lot of the meetings since my parents were splitting up and I had to stay at home babysitting a lot. My 4h leader [Not going to say her name since that might be rude.] decided it was all my fault for "chosing" not to go to the meetings and said that I need to do my part. (even though I really <span style="font-weight:bold">was</span> trying very hard.) I get very sensitive when people yell at me and I don't know how to fix it. To make things even worse she decided to yell at my mom too and make her feel like a bad parent! Luckily my mom isn't the sensitive type, but I had to go through that night with everyone seeing me cry in public for the first time since kindergarten.<br><br>That's not all. The next day, the first day of fair, she yelled at me AGAIN.. and my dog (a Shiba Inu) gets very protective of me, especially when I'm nervous. So when I had to show her the judge came around and got to examining her... and my dog got nippy which made me MORE nervous..<br><br>Fair didn't go too well for me I didn't got to state or anything and I was scared of my 4h leader.<br><br>Well now its been three months and I haven't been to a 4h meeting since. I got one of my friends to explain what I'm going through to the leaders and hopefully they understand, but I'm still scared to go back. Isn't 4h supposed to be fun?<br><br><br>
<br>PART 2<br><br>Ok so I got a text from my ex on halloween saying he wants to be my friend again. (we were best friends, then we went out then he trashed me so I dumped him..) He said he missed being my friend and he actually seemed to mean it.... Well he didn't.. The next day he tells my best friend that he only said that because he was bored... Some people really!
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  • SunnyDaysDontLieSunnyDaysDontLie
    96.10.185.201
    NewfGirl wrote:
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    <br>PART 2<br><br>Ok so I got a text from my ex on halloween saying he wants to be my friend again. (we were best friends, then we went out then he trashed me so I dumped him..) He said he missed being my friend and he actually seemed to mean it.... Well he didn't.. The next day he tells my best friend that he only said that because he was bored... Some people really!
    <br><br>Your trust is going to get worn down to the point where you can't trust anyone but yourself, and you don't even know if you trust yourself. Been there, done that.<br><br>As for the fair thing. I would've lost my temper at your 4h leader. I've done it before. Especially since your parents are splitting up [that sucks /:], so she should be more sympatetic. People these days, you know?
    "I am carrying all my hatred and contempt for power, its laws, its authority, its society, and I have no room for guilt or fear of punishment."-Diego Rios
    Semper Fi.
  • ShibagirlShibagirl
    71.217.31.114
    That's soo true and my mom was about to lose her temper with my 4h leader, I just shut down and started to cry my eyes out because I didn't know what to do.<br><br>Thanks for your support and reply!
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  • BertonBerton
    65.29.131.82
    Boo on your 4H leader, some of them are just ugh. My aunt tried to be the dairy leader last year, and I wasn't gonna have any of it, cause my dad was/is the leader. And the dog lady hates me and my dogs. and the sheep leader doesnt like me either. but yah.
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  • SunnyDaysDontLieSunnyDaysDontLie
    96.10.185.201
    NewfGirl wrote:
    That's soo true and my mom was about to lose her temper with my 4h leader, I just shut down and started to cry my eyes out because I didn't know what to do.<br><br>Thanks for your support and reply!
    <br><br>We all need a good cry now and then! ;D<br><br>I've never been in 4h. Been on teams, been in Girl Scouts. Which I suppose is kinda like 4h.<br><br>Haha. No problem xP I hate to see what the world is going to be like when I graduate.
    "I am carrying all my hatred and contempt for power, its laws, its authority, its society, and I have no room for guilt or fear of punishment."-Diego Rios
    Semper Fi.
  • ShibagirlShibagirl
    71.217.31.114
    Luckily I still show my dogs with AKC so there's no way they can put me down enough to quit showing my dogs :D
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  • SunnyDaysDontLieSunnyDaysDontLie
    96.10.185.201
    NewfGirl wrote:
    Luckily I still show my dogs with AKC so there's no way they can put me down enough to quit showing my dogs :D
    Woohoo!<br>None of my dogs are AKC registered. Haha. I don't show dogs. Not my style.
    "I am carrying all my hatred and contempt for power, its laws, its authority, its society, and I have no room for guilt or fear of punishment."-Diego Rios
    Semper Fi.
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