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edited September 2009 in Vent
I feel horrible. My mom is constantly bugging me about how fat I am or how short I am. I'm 120 lb and 5'1 and I'm 13. Well my mom keeps on screaming at me about how worthless or ugly I am. I've been crying at night and now I am extremely self concious now. My friends tell me I'm beautiful but..anyways I get a lot of stress now. The doctor told me I had too much stress. I'm at my wits ends now. I tried to talk to my mom but she won't listen.<br>Cookies to anyone who reads this. Adding more later.
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  • You aren't fat. my friend Courtney is the exact same height and weight you are, and she's not fat. You're perfectly normal.
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  • Ho lee crap. Fat? I think your Mom needs a reality check. Honestly.
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  • you are <span style="text-decoration:underline">not </span>fat. I just did a bmi calculaotor for you, and you are a healthy weight :D Im the same age and about half an inch or so shorter. Im less, but am serverly underweight. You are not fat or overweight, so dont listen to your mom, listen to your friends, they are right am im sure you are beautiful. and i thought you were about 16?! xD
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  • aww, bluey.<br>You are -not- fat, and you are -not- ugly.<br><br>anndd, you are definitely -NOT- worthless.<br>I weigh about as much as you..but a couple inches shorter.<br>I'm 4'9".<br><br>People say those sort of things to me all the time, but as long as I'm fine with how I look, then I'm great.<br><br>But, if you aren't happy with how you look, you can change it.<br>If you are wanting to lose weight, just be dedicated to losing it.<br>But don't think you have to be super skinny because of what your mom is telling you, don't let it get a hold of you and don't be so hard on yourself.<br><br>You are beautiful Bluey, in every way.<br>
    <br>Holy crap, only 13. Geeze woman, you are way more mature than your age.<br>And you are a hella good roleplayer.<br>Kudos!
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  • How incredibly inappropriate - you should definitely talk with one of your school councilors. If you are active, and following a healthy lifestyle, then the numbers mean nothing, and it is asinine and juvenile of anyone to say anything otherwise.<br><br>Really, how childish. But you know what they say about children, "They only pick on you because they're jealous."
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  • I don't see how an adult can be so immature. <br>This reminds me of my aunt, when I was 1-5 I was quiet chunky, of course all babies and small children usually are and my aunt kept saying to my face how fat I was, until my mom went off on her. <br>I have weighed 115 since 9th grade, I am 17 just out of high school and still weigh 115 and I am 5' 3".<br>You are still growing, and there is no way that 120 pounds is fat.
  • You aren't ugly or fat. Your mom's just being immature, don't listen to her. You should talk to a school counsler, I hope you feel better!
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  • Hey, if you're short, I don't know what I am. I'm not going to give any age/height out. (Bad idea when trying to get facebook yes?) But at your age, I was shorter than you are now, and my friend was about the same as you, maybe an inch taller though. I know I can't compare for weight with myself though, as I myself am a couple pounds under weight. I can't figure it out, I've tried to put on those few pounds, it just won't happen.
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  • awh, bluey dear, you surely are not fat .<br>you can't let those things get to your head .<br>you are perfectly beautiful the way you are,<br>and if you are not happy with that,<br>you can always change .<br>brittiluffsyouanywaythebluesteris <3
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  • <span style="font-size:92">Thanks, guys. (:<br>I try not to let it get to my head, and I ignore her every time she says something like that. :roll:<br>thanks, <3<br><br>
    <br>Gak, thank you xDD<br>But in real, I am -extremely- immature. <br>LMAO. xD</span>
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  • hmm, well we can all be sometimes.<br>but I really didn't mean it like that.<br>I'm guessing I meant, your intellect maybe?<br>Your intellect seems more mature.<br>...at least from the 13 year olds that I know personally.<br><br>I love yah Bluey.
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  • <span style="font-size:75"><span style="font-weight:bold">That is SO ridiculous for a mother to say, I mean honestly.<br>If you are ever feeling bad or something, you should talk to a counselor or someone, because I know plenty of people that height and weight and in my mind, they are underweight. o.o<br><br>Maybe talk to your mother, telling her how saying those things doesn't help anything and makes you stressed, maybe even have your doctor talk to her. Because honestly, that is so wrong of her.<br>And like Xae said, she might just be jealous. I mean it's always a possibility.<br><br>And I'm always here to talk, love. :]</span></span>
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  • /hijacks<br><br>I would love to put everyone in a room right now :P not to be offencive, I wish I wasn't as tall as i was but hehe I'd feel like super tall in that room :D it'd be awesome! I'm 5'8" nearly 5'9"
  • <span style="font-size:75">aww!<br>Poor Bluey.<br>Your momma's just jealous cause you're so gorgeous ;D<br>But either way, she's handling it pretty immaturely.<br>But don't let her get you down!<br>Keep your head up, because you're worth it.<br>-sorry that sounded like a lame inspirational speech-<br>o.o<br>You're only 13?!?!?<br>Girl, you are too mature.<br>Child-up, sheesh ;D</span>
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