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Another Shay Vent

Young_NativeYoung_Native
edited August 2009 in Vent
Ok, well, let me start from the beginning. (This is not the person I usually talk about vent rofl.) <br><br>I had a friend where we talked everyday, during school and out of it, and we were good friends. I didn’t know her too long, but, heck, she turned out to be a REALLY good friend and all. Sadly for me, good things don’t seem to go good all the time. <br><br>During this summer we kind of stopped talking to each other. She was busy with lots of stuff and didn’t really have time to try and call me. So, I thought nothing of it and told her it was fine. Though I did like to whine about it rofl. Anyways, she finally got done with work and everything. And, she just changed, like, something terrible happened when we weren’t talking.<br><br>I keep asking her, ‘what happened?’, ‘are you sure you’re ok’, ‘you aren’t lying to me, right?’, and things along those lines. She replies she is perfectly fine. So, even though I still feel like she is hiding something, I try to get off her case- afraid that I’d annoy the heck out of her. Life goes on.<br><br>Some days she is happy and like her usual self. But, most of the time, she is annoyed, stressed, or angry. And I don’t know what to do, because she changed dramatically, in my eyes, and I don’t know what to say. I use to always have words to comfort and stuff, but now, I don’t even know where to start! She just says nothing is wrong when I believe something is! I want to know what happened during that time she was away from me, because certainly went wrong since her sudden change of character. <br><br>I am just utterly confused, annoyed, and feeling hopeless. <br><br>A little advice?
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Comments

  • Young_NativeYoung_Native
    209.206.169.152
    Over all, I feel like I lost a close friend, because of the sudden change. And we don't talk as much anymore. We barely even associate anymore. She just has changed. And if this keeps up...it will just get worse, I can tell you that.
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  • HibachiHibachi
    97.104.112.161
    Maybe she's just stressed, like you said she was acting like it, try confronting her and telling her how you feel. :3<br><br>Usually people change over time after you get to know them, but this sounds more like she's stressed.<br>Sounds like she hiding something to me. :o
  • Heartless RikuHeartless Riku
    207.200.116.13
    awwww.....I would love to help, but I'm too stuck in that position. I kind of lost connection with my close friend of 6 years. But it's pretty much my fault. And I agree with what Lava said.
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  • Young_NativeYoung_Native
    209.206.169.152
    I asked her before if anything happened during the time we were seperated. She didn't really give me an answer on that, just said she was stressed and that was all.<br><br> But it still sounds like something happened to me, and she just isn't saying anything. :/ <br><br> I feel bad for not knowing anything because lots of people come up and ask me what is going on, since, I guess, everyone believes I know everything that is wrong with her. And it's hard to tell them I don't know when they think we're so close. I just wish we were still that darn close. *sighs* <br><br> It's not too bad, we still normally talk, but she usually sounds so...detached. Blah.
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  • HibachiHibachi
    97.104.112.161
    Well, I was best friends with someone, I have known her for about 17-18 years (ever since we where about a year old.)<br>I lived next to her and I would go over to her house everyday after school. Our famalies did everything together.<br>But, I moved when I was 10 and I still saw her during the summer and whatnot, and now it feels like we aren't even best friends.<br>She has made new friends and so did I and we moved on, I still miss that special bond we had even though we hang out, I even lived with her for a short period of time this summer and she still abandoned me for her boyfriend, so time changes, I don't really have a best friend anymore the only person I tell everything to is my boyfriend.
  • Dark FlameDark Flame
    92.26.99.169
    Wish i had some advice but i dont :( sorry...i know how you feel though...i had a best friend and i mean we where so close my dad even classed her as a daughter she was always round and id been friends with her for years...then she got involved with MSN and started meeting people from it and i got pushed to the side for some people she didnt even know :( and she went to my school and sat next to me in all my lessons and then she stopped being my friend which was so hard because all i wanted to do was be her friend...she just pushed me away and then ignored me in every lesson :( But now i have new friends and she is really jealous because i managed to get a boyfriend and she can't or something like that...I'm sure she wants to become my friend again but not after what she said to me and im happier now than i was before :D so it kind of worked out before
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