Teenage Years, Lifes Changing, Lifes Hard.

butterthor · August 2009

So basically I feel like just letting some stuff out. I will keep it pg-13, but please don't read this if you don't want to. It truly won't be exciting. So, were to start. Ok, so in my group of friends, not many of us had experience with guys, none of us had gone to a dance with a guy anything. (BTW, I am in highschool). So today, I get a call from one of my "friends" who I have been avoiding for the summer due to her selfishness, lack or loyalty, anti-friend support and crazyness. So she's like "Justin asked me out" so, pause, Justin is this pervert that is a grade lower than us and she has had some cruch/hate thing for a few years. Last I checked she hated him. So anyway I was like, "wait, asked out as in dating?" and shes like "Yah, and we wanted to go to the mall next saturday, but our moms don't trust us"(I am totally glad that the parents are smart.) So she wanted me to come with them to the mall so their moms would let them go. So, I will admit, I have never dated, I tryed asking a guy to a dance once, but the same friend ran up to him, yelled at him to go with me and just ruined everything. To this day, I cringe at the memory. But anyway, I will admit I am somewhat jealous, I haven't ever gotten a guy, and here she is, entering that side(of people that have dated?). Am I wrong? I will try to be happy for her, but how the hell can I? I also have been considering just ending the "friendship", should I?!

reina__ · August 2009

In my opinion, high school dating is kinda lame. I applaud you for never dating. As soon as I hit grade 7, all the girls in my school dated almost every single guy. No joke. I thought it was the dumbest thing ever, and I still do. If your friend wants to date jerk-offs and creepers, that's her choice, and although you might not want her to, it's probably a good idea just to get it go and let her make her own choices. Later down the road her problems will be much bigger than yours of "never 'getting' a guy." Trust me.

CORY · August 2009

reina__ wrote:

In my opinion, high school dating is kinda lame. I applaud you for never dating. As soon as I hit grade 7, all the girls in my school dated almost every single guy. No joke. I thought it was the dumbest thing ever, and I still do. If your friend wants to date jerk-offs and creepers, that's her choice, and although you might not want her to, it's probably a good idea just to get it go and let her make her own choices. Later down the road her problems will be much bigger than yours of "never 'getting' a guy." Trust me.

Well. I was a 7th grader before the summer and all. And that happened at my school to. Everyone dated everyone. Hell this one girl dated every boy in are grade in 6th grade. But once some of the Elementary schools came together all hell broke loose with dating crap. I was never was asked out an plan on not to. Cause id rather have fun while i can. And how some of the girls act like know. They don't have much fun cause of boys. But one funny thing is im not supposed to date till im 16 so i have 3 years to go. My step sister didn't go by that rule. and she got grounded for awhile (but her grades didn't help) she is still grounded till this day. And I totally agree with what Reina said. Good way of putting it. Sorry for my novel i wrote :P

Layout · August 2009

I'm going into the 7th grade(yay for one of the youngest people here xD) after this summer vacation, and I must say that the dating crap here is ridiculous. The dating started in like 4th grade, and is still going on.>.> I honestly don't even consider it dating because I find it ridiculous. I've never been asked out either and don't plan on dating for a loong time. It doesn't really matter for me when I start dating to my parents, but I wouldn't care if there was a specific age. I'm totally okay with high school dating, but other than that I completely agree with reina.

CallyKats Dachshunds · August 2009

Well, I don't really have a problem with any of it. Coz ya know what? All the chicks that date every guy they can get their hands on are going to be labeled as..not sure I'm allowed to say it but I'm sure you all know what I mean, and I find that rather funny. I've dated (technically) one guy in mi about 16 years, I still love him, but that doesn't mean I'm going to run back to him after he tried to use me-twice. :roll: I talk to alot of guys, most of them I only have to ask if I really want to go out with them, but I don't. I don't want to be stuck committing to a guy if I don't have to. It just takes away the freedom (somewhat, depending on parents and the such) of being a kid. :P I like that little bit of freedom. xD

woodpecker · August 2009

i agree with all you guys.. its pointless at a young age, at my old school (which ive just left) it was what people obsessed over, i had one of my friends (a few years back when she was 10-11, fancying the gap student who was 18.. o.0 stupid. most of the stuff started when they were about that age.. now, my oldest friend whom i known since we were 4, was getting -too- serious with this guy. they would sneak off after school, to go into the sports store cupboard and stuff.. and she was going to sneak into his tent when we went on a school trip, its pathetic almost, we are going into the ninth grade (if thats 13/14 years, XD i dont know about america) this summer, and is becoming too much. im 'dating' this guy, because i told him i would as a joke, and he took me seriously.. but anyways, we basically just good mates, nothing more.. [/hijack]

but to be honest, butterthor, i would be a friend, but tell her that she shouldnt get too serious and stuff.. hoped i helped XD

Cybergirl · August 2009

I can understand why your jealous. Ive never dated anyone either. And when my best friend got her first boyfriend earlier this summer I was upset because I was the one who talked to him all day and she just sat there and stared at her feet. But turns out her was a lying controlling jerk. Once I reliazed that I told her and she didnt listen. And what happened? They fought so much they broke up. >.> And little kids dating? Same here. My friends little sister has two boyfriends and shes in 4th grade. She did have three but she told me ''I broke up with him because he was a jerk.'' But dont worry about it. Be happy for her if shes happy. You'll get a boyfriend when the time is right. It happens when it happens. But if you really want one, dont look for one and you'll probably find one. It usually works that way.

butterthor · August 2009

Yah, I guess you guys are right, but can't help but want to be with a guy. I have plenty of crushes and all. I just feel so alone you know, like friends and family aren't enough. But, I will try to be happy for my friend, even though it will be extreamly hard. The whole dating stuff didn't really start much till the 7th grade, but I have a stong feeling that my younger sister, now in the 6th grade, will be dating soon, which is even worse. I will end up jealous of my younger sister! Ag, and it just seems like guys don't get it, at all. They don't understand how much it hurts us when they joke around or reject us. Well, at least me. :oops:

The2ndCavalry · August 2009

High school sucks honestly

The old saying its the best years of your life. Its not, I'm not saying it for everybody (because some people peak at high school then go down hill after). Maybe your one of those that it will get better after high school and once your away from the immature drama and the parents going "BOYS HAVE COOTIES." Seriously, no matter how long your dating a guy parents will always say that. My boyfriend and I are going on a year and a half and my mother still won't grow up for it.. About your friend, don't let her make you become a scape goat because thats exactly what she's trying to make you be, she and whats his face will most likely end up ditching you... Lastly to Cav's rambling. Do. NOT. date. because other people are; thats hormones speaking; not emotions, then you'll end up dating because you can't control hormones and 2 teenagers dating with raging hormones is a bad bad thing.

Tattoo · August 2009

Yeah, I was dating this kid for almost a year. Literally my best friend. THen he dumped me because i was hanging out with this kid from work and stuff. It turns out this kid did like me, but i didn't know it. So then we made up and got back together. Boyfriend treated me like crap. I stuck thru it until i couldn't take it anymore and dumped him. He stalked me, and when the school admin got involved, he had a breakdown. Don;t do it. Worst months of my life. I am just waiting to go to college and meet people there

The2ndCavalry · August 2009

Haha, Don't scare the poor girl. Not all guys are creepy psycho's. And if they don't treat you like a princess that means he's gotta go =-D

butterthor · August 2009

lol, I'm not scared. There aren't many creepy stalkers and I won't be doing anything crazy. But its really funny being called "kid". I'm not mad, its just funny. I don't consider myself a kid. But yah. And I don't want to be treated like a princess, just special, but I would treat him well to.

Tattoo · August 2009

The2ndCavalry wrote:

Haha, Don't scare the poor girl. Not all guys are creepy psycho's. And if they don't treat you like a princess that means he's gotta go =-D

Not saying that all guys are creepy psychos. The moral of the story is we're too young to be all serious and dating and stuff. And she's right. If he doesn't believe you and respect you, kick his butt ot the curb XD

butterthor · August 2009

Lol, you guys are funny. I just never imagined people would veiw things in so many ways. Wow.

butterthor · August 2009

Well, i saw the sticky, so I guess we can't talk about any of this anymore. But thanks guys.

Hibachi · August 2009

I never actually had a real relationship in high school, I dated one single guy for four months and after that I was done with boys it was just complicated. But this year I am in my senior year with few months to go, and I started a relationship in December and to this day I am still with him, almost 8 months. He treats me better than anyone in the world, if he had a say he would put a tiara on my head and let me rule the world. xD I would consider waiting for the right guy before you get into anything.

KelseyRunner · August 2009

SandyPaws wrote:

I'm going into the 7th grade(yay for one of the youngest people here xD) after this summer vacation, and I must say that the dating crap here is ridiculous. The dating started in like 4th grade, and is still going on.>.> I honestly don't even consider it dating because I find it ridiculous. I've never been asked out either and don't plan on dating for a loong time. It doesn't really matter for me when I start dating to my parents, but I wouldn't care if there was a specific age. I'm totally okay with high school dating, but other than that I completely agree with reina.

Same. And Totally agreed. We've had so many convos about this at school XD And actually, I think people were "dating" before 4th grade even. Really. Whats the point? Are you gonna go scooter to McDonald's or what? And I guess in this case, high school is okay to date in my opinion, usually. You have a little more freedom and can drive and all that fun stuff. -sigh- I just don't get it.

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