So called friends

ParanoidThoughts8 · July 2009

It seems like i've lost everyone lately, I lost all relationship with my parents long ago, so my friends have been all i've had. Most of my best friends were two years older than me. I never thought much of it, since i've always been more mature than people my age. Well recently, my best friend graduated high school and started hanging out with a few new people and i'm like "Whatever" and didn't think much of it at all. Well, about a month and a half ago he told me he didn't want any friendship with me at all anymore, the reason he gave me was that I was too young. This didn't seemed to be a problem for the 6 years before.(Yeah, wed been friends for 6 years). Well, What do you do when someone tells you they don't want anything to do with you anymore? Move on right? Well our relationship was so strong everyone in my family thought of him as family. So he started telling everyone it was my fault we were friends. I'm not posting because I want to be his friend, no I could care less. I'm not at all the type of person to plead for friends. But since we stopped being friends, I lost that whole group of friends. Which was everyone. So now i'm like 100% along(With the exception of family). But family can only get you so far. I think strong friendships are a good thing to have? But what are you supposed to do when you have none? Start over? I'm just like really stuck. : / If you read that, you rock.

â™¥Andreaâ™¥ · July 2009

Eh, sowwies lolo!! This same thing happened to me about a year ago. Scarily similar situation xD I totally know how it feels

It sucks. But, try to make as many new friends as possible. It might be hard, if you, like me, Don't really like talking to people.. (I tend to think they judge me) And it might seem superficial at first, But my new group of friends are AMAZING! They totally accepted me and all my quirks, It might seem like the world can't handle you yet, But if you put yourself out there (No matter how painful) You really will reap the rewards! Feel free to PM me if you need more advice, Or just wanna talk! :] â™¥, Andi

BuffyBoarding · July 2009

Buffy definately knows how you feel. All of my friend's graduated two years ago and there's only one that i still talk to. Everyone just went their separate ways. So for the past two years i've hung out with one other person and just kinda avoided everyone else. </loner>

CallyKats Dachshunds · July 2009

I kind of know what you mean.. I have/had/not completly sure what a guy that refuses to talk to me in public or anything, but always texts me to talk. -shakes head- It caused huge things in our school because someone told 5 million people we liked each other and blah blah blah. we don't. >.> well, atleast I don't. o.0 This (what you're dealing with) happens on and off with the guy I love. :roll: we were together for about 6 months (not technically but we were) and his mother all of a sudden started to..let's say dislike me. So he ended up dating this other chick and acting like an ass towards me calling me bad things and all that jazz. Do you know why? He's scared that his mother will disown him or the such. He's been close with his mother ever since she divorced his dad, and he doesn't like his step-dad because he's threatened to hit her and the what-not. I understand that, but we both know we majorly care about each other and want to be with each other, but he's scared of what his mother will think because she highly dislikes me. And so at this point we're like on and off again even talking to each other. So, mi main point is, I have to say that it's peer pressure. -nods- And he probably takes the alpha rule in that group of friends, so they're going to follow him, most likely. It's ridiculous and crude, but that's mi thoughts. I hope everything gets better for you though. btw-buffers, I'm pretty much a loner too, only mi 2 friends I really talk to. Well, I mean I talk to alot of people, but I really couldn't care less about them. xD

ParanoidThoughts8 · July 2009

Yeah, and Thanks Andi! It just dumb because, we werent dating. There was no "he said she said" drama(i'm not like that). Things were fine. And it was totally out of the blue. So I think that hurts more. Idk, I know i'll get over it. But thanks for helping guys!

ShesTheManROX · August 2009

You know whats a great way to make friends. A job at a new place... Like I work at the local supermarket and yeah I have crap loads of friends I never thought id have... including my boyfriend =]

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