They are taking over my life!

Doggydog · July 2009

At first, my parents just wanted to be in my life, starting the day they found out i wanted to go to a $45,000 school... and the day they found out i was dating Richie. Now they seem to be taking over my life. First off, they are forcing me to give my password to every account i have. Facebook and gmail! (lol, when she asked for my gmail password i 'accidently' left out a number so when i got home from work, i got on and erased all the messages from myspace and myyearbook because she doesn't know I have an account on those and that is the only place i have to privately talk to my friends.) They even made me give them the stupid password for my phone's voicemail. (I later found out that it is because Richie called me late at night when my mom had taken the phone away and left a voicemail and my mom wanted to listen to it and I can't listen to it when it was directed at me. And now she is accusing me for talking to him really late at night when I don't and he knows I don't answer that late, he was just leaving a vm to tell me good night -.-) Took the phone, too! Permanently! My mom even made me answer a bunch of questions one morning when i was supposed to be getting ready for work and almost made me late. She found out I've never met Richie, and that we met through the internet, though I had to lie and say through facebook and not myyearbook, that would blow that. She now has to know every time I am talking to him and it has to be on the home phone (which has terrible connections and is super static-y especially when talking to someone in Tennessee or any long distance) I think she is doing it mainly so she can eaves drop through another home phone >.>. She even called Richie when I wasn't around. And told him she wanted to talk to his parents. He was a little freaked out (cause I couldn't warn him and tell him cause of the stupid home phone not being able to Call long distance, only Receiving long distance) and didn't know what to say so he said tomorrow at noon. He told me on m.s. and said he had told her that and didn't know what to do. He just moved away from him parents to live in Tennessee with his Aunt or Grandmother - I don't remember. He said he won't be seeing them for a few weeks. When my mom called him back at noon, he didn't answer and she told me that if he is avoiding me, he won't be able to talk to me until she gets ahold of him.... -.- I understand them wanting to be in my life. I would want to be apart of my daughter's life to... if I had one...>.>. But next thing i know they'll be searching through my room when I am at work and when I come home, they will be in there reading everything I've written, asking what the meaning behind it is. And looking at all the other things I have in there... artwork, songs, books, poems, ugh. She was the one that said "I respect your privacy." Bull Shigity! Getting into my email and fb, reading all my emails and messages-yeah, that's respecting my privacy! And when i asked why she needed my gmail password, she said "just checking on things." Omigod i can't believe her! My dad isn't as bad. It's my mom mostly. And if you are going to say something about Richie and I meeting on the internet, DON'T! I know the internet isn't safe, but I know Richie is not some rapest or anything like that. So don't go around telling me how unsafe it was or anything like that because I already know. Just don't, okay? thanks. -AoedeDawn

CallyKats Dachshunds · July 2009

Well, I can't say anything about meeting on the internet coz I met 3-4 of the guys I talk to on myyearbook. xD mi mum nor dad know that I have anything other than the OW games. I lock mi cell phone and refuse to give anyone the pass. I told mi mum that if she doesn't get over it them I'm going to live with mi dad. -shrugs- She dreads that, coz she knows that I would rather live with him. He gives me mi room and privacy and doesn't bug about stuff. But you're mum is just trying to protect you, try and talk to her about how you don't feel comfortable and the whatnot anymore since you have absolutly no privacy. Me and mi mum always fight about it. She went through mi bag (just a gym bag that I take just about everywhere) looking for 'something' and flipped out on me for having a lighter. :roll: I don't smoke or do anything (coz its st00pid) and then accused me of stealing her lighter-when she's never bought a white lighter. >.> but anyways, not so positive if that's VP forum appropriate..? But yeah-I would just try and talk to her and tell her about how you feel. And I know what ya mean about the home phone thing. :roll: mine are the same way, but I can tell if someone tries to turn on the other one to listen in.

Doggydog · July 2009

Yeah, idk if my mom resizes I have this... if she did, she didn't think it was 'interesting' enough to get into it...>.> as for the phone, she just walked in and took it... I'm not one to object to things easily idk why. And can write good persuasive/convincing/objecting things, but it isn't as easy for me to walk up to her and talk. My mom and my dad are still together-if they weren't, I would be with my dad and this whole 'taking over my life' thing wouldn't be happening because my dad is like yours, laid back and not as concerned. I understand her trying to protect me, but this is too far. idk what she did in her teenage years, what she didn't like, or if she ruined hers, but she isn't going to ruin mine. And now my bf's mom is in on it. She is mad and is making him break up with me. We are gonna fake it, but it is still disheartening...>.>

CallyKats Dachshunds · July 2009

that really sucks. :? break your mum and dad up!!! :twisted: lmao. nah, that wouldn't be very mature. xD but if I think mi mum will flip out if I try to talk to her-try and write a note to her, but make sure you word it right so she doesn't take it the wrong way. -nods- it usually works, like if you're going away for a day or so or won't see her for a little while just slip it somewhere you're positive she'll find it soon after you/she leave(s).

Doggydog · July 2009

haha, yeah I'm -sure- that would work xD lol I have thought about writing her a note before, though. But, most likely, she'd come in and make me explain it - or read it to her - even though she has eyes and can read herself and would have already read it.... i think I am going to try it anyway... I'm good with words...>.> at least I think I am... lol I'm a writer, what can I say xD

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