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Why do I bother?

NickelbackLuverNickelbackLuver
edited April 2009 in Vent
Mk. Today kinda sucked a little, because I've finally realized yet -another- of my friends 'left' me. Its a long story, and I dont really like to get into detail about my friendships, but.. this is the third person I've gotten close to, only to have them decide I'm not good enough... or something. I really don't know what it is =/ Anyway, this is my only friend I have at my new school, so now I have literally no one to talk to at school. :? <br><br>I think this one is because I dont talk. But, I dont talk much because I'm terribly shy after losing my two best friends to popularity. So, yeah >.> I dont see the point in even trying to make friends. All it does is breaks me, but luckily this time I was ready for it since every time I make a friend now I guess I'll just be expecting them to not like me eventually. I mean, I dont know >.< Its annoying, and shall I say.. heart breaking? Not to be dramatic or anything xD<br><br>And then! On top of all of that, I also have a guy that I really like (have never talked to him though...) And I really want to talk to him, but I guess I'm afraid of failing my relationships now, so I doubt I will ever have the nerve to go say something to him :? <br><br><br><br>Wee, my vent for a while xD Just had to get that out there I guess :P
All good things must come to an end. All endings will begin new good things.
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Comments

  • GAK04GAK04
    172.162.183.145
    <span style="font-size:92">oh my gosh.<br><br>wow.<br><br>i sort of have the same exact problem.<br><br>except i'm not in a new school...<br><br>hmmm, i wouldn't really know what to tell you advice wise, cause i sort of like not having a lot of friends from my school because a lot of the people there are not worth it - they are not worth my friendship because they would never be true real friends anyways. i only have one friend that has stuck with me since fourth grade..all the other ones sort of bailed or turned on me...or something.<br><br>With the friendship problem, i would say don't worry too much about it. Yes, it is good to have friends, but if they want to leave you and "break" the friendship, then they are not good enough for you. They aren't devoted enough to make a commitment to a true friendship with you, which makes them sort of unworthy...and I'm not saying they are bad people. In time, people will come to notice that you are possibly a great person and one that is worth their time...and vice versa for you.<br><br>And as for the guy thing, i really have nothing. cause i don't normally worry about relationships. they aren't that important to me...i don't really know why. they just aren't. but if you think that there could actually be a relationship with him...or you two could even possibly become friends, then talk to him...or do something so he notices you..if he doesn't already.</span>
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  • AnirbasAnirbas
    74.127.239.29
    You want to know what I've found? Hanging ot with the guys is SO much easier than girls. Because they <span style="font-style:italic">don't</span> care if you're super popular or whatever. My crush is one of my best male friends. I know it's hard to break out of your shell, but find something that makes you look great (the confidence boost) then go talk to some of the boys (your chrush included) and they'll find out that you are an amazing person and they won't really care about everything else. And if you do make a friendship with these guys, don't listen to the girls, because NOTHING good comes out of it. Listen to what they say but they're most likely jelous so don't think about it too much. I could have saved alot of drama had I done that (I'm learning lol). And one girl will come along. I had to wait from kindergarden to grade six to get the amazinf RL friends I have. Don't stress it too much :D
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  • NickelbackLuverNickelbackLuver
    69.141.80.206
    thanks for the help ^^ Sadly, I doubt Ill be able to do much xD Im so shy ;;
    All good things must come to an end. All endings will begin new good things.
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  • HWRD2HWRD2
    209.183.51.15
    Well.... I am kinda shy too. I kept getting stabbed in the back so I stopped trying to make them. Actually brought more people around because I didn't care anymore and also most of your friends don't last past high school though one or two do.... Just remember that after school your life kinda restarts.
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  • GAK04GAK04
    172.162.183.145
    Nickelback__Luver wrote:
    thanks for the help ^^ Sadly, I doubt Ill be able to do much xD Im so shy ;;
    <br><br>ha ha...yah. <br>sameee here...<br>;)
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