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Love sucks

HWRD2HWRD2
edited April 2009 in Vent
Well.... I have been together with this guy for a little more than a month. We moved in together and I am ever in a different state now because we "love" eachother. He has a kid with his ex. The little girl, akima is 8 months old. Her mother liz has always been a problem because even as an ex she is overly controlling of him. Well I found out last friday from her that he had cheated on me with her. I kept my mind open because you know how exs talk crap on their ex to get the new gf to break up with him... I asked him for the truth and he told me.... They had "been" together a week ago. Jon didn't tell me anything, I found it out from his ex liz. I cried a lot and ended up talking to him and working it out. I asked him a lot of questions and got answers..... Which I just found out from liz were all lies. Betrayal, deceit, lies. Idk what to do anymore. I don't have money because I put all mine down on a new place which I can't afford without him... Which means I am stuck here for another two weeks until I get paid again.... Plus... Idk if I can breakup with him.... I am so depressed it isn't funny and I am bi polar on top of it.....
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Comments

  • AnirbasAnirbas
    74.127.239.29
    If you've talked to him and you believed him before you talked to his ex than just let it be. I'd try to wait out the two weeks and if it becomes too much try and see if you can stay at a friends house until you both chill out. Then if you get through the next two weeks and you do buy that other place just say "I NEED to know the truth and I need to hear it now" and if you tihnk he's lying, take off. and of course, if you ever want to talk I'm here (in the game I'm Girlygirl98) :)
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  • HWRD2HWRD2
    209.183.51.18
    Lol. Well I already know that he did it... I just aint sure what to do bout it. He admitted but also lied to me bout a lot of stuff which his ex ended up telling me the full truth. He admitted it after I already knew from what his ex told me. He had been flirting with her everytime he went over there to pick up akima and he had been talking to her about them getting back together and he said he had to think bout it.... He told me that he didn't care for her at all. That their "fun" hadn't meant anything and such. It pisses me off that he would not only cheat on me but also lie to me. It sucks. I just don't see how if he loved me, he would cheat on me. If you don't love a person enough to stay faithful then you don't love them.
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  • AnirbasAnirbas
    74.127.239.29
    Ask him that. And then quit talking to his ex. If he says he loves you and you can see it when he says it that he's not lying than stay i guess. I don't really know, I've never been married lol
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  • HWRD2HWRD2
    209.183.51.16
    I'm not married to him. Lol. That would be even harder. I feel like he tells the truth and you could call me stupid but I think I made a big mistake today.... I allowed her to come over to help put feed in the chicken houses..... She went somewhere and he followed after like a minute or two. They both stayed gone for more than 30 minutes and then he came back. I was so pissed by then that I left and went back to the house. She was in our bed in a wife beater and pants with their daughter.... Her bf that was watching the kid says she hadn't been there for long....
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  • AnirbasAnirbas
    74.127.239.30
    well, I've never had a real bf either lol.<br><br>I really don't know what to say. I'd say to go with your gut, or follow them IF there is a next time.
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  • HWRD2HWRD2
    209.183.51.17
    Yeah. Lol, well they both said nothing happened today so I think I might be okay but I never know if they are telling the truth. But thanks for listening to my ventings. :D
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  • AnirbasAnirbas
    74.127.239.30
    No problem. I vent enough to other people so I try to listen once in awhile lol
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  • SnowpawsSnowpaws
    24.176.248.73
    I might be a little late on this answer lol... but i can relate to it. Kinda, I had an ex who would TRY to hook up with me when he had a new GF. course i said no and so on, but its definalty an "ex" thing ya know. I'm sure he loves you, but guys dont do we'll with change! ..much like an animal -.-
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  • reina__reina__
    142.179.75.177
    Tis why I highly dislike the dating scene.<br><br>Kick him in the junk. ugh
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  • HWRD2HWRD2
    209.183.51.248
    I know. Lol. Dating sucks but we are getting more serious. We are getting egaged in 2 weeks and have been talking about having a kid.
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