My little problem

98rtsy · March 2009

Ok, so me and my girlfriend have been going out for 6 weeks now. Well, I love her to death, but her sister HATES me and she is starting to listen to some of the stuff her sister is saying. I have done nothing to make her mad, she just is. I'm afraid she is gonna say I said something, then she is gonna break up with me. Please help me out.

kimyo · March 2009

Oh gosh. That sounds harsh, but the sister kinda sounds like me sadly enough. My bro's gf (fiance now) has a horrible sister and brother in law. They're both pains in the butt and they bug me a lot. Well, my brother always calls back to say that it's not gonna work out and everything. Sometimes, I can't really control my emotions (oh wait, I'm a girl... great...) and there's nothing I can do. The worst things I've done though? I fell asleep during the fiance's sister's engagement video (yeah...), teared up at the fiance's aunt's wedding (pretty bad), and refused to go to her house to meet her family. For me, it's not that I hate the other person, but it's just that I wanna make sure it's the right person and not the touch and go person. =P I'm really protective of my siblings, and I can see that she's trying to get into everything. Well, I'm that way too and look, my brother and his girlfriend are now engaged. =P If your relationship is true enough to last, nothing her sister will say will affect the way you two feel about each other. If there's something bothering her, then you might have a talk with your girlfriend or to her sister to see if there's something going on. For a guy, I know it's weird advice because you're getting advice from a different gender. =P

98rtsy · March 2009

I don't hate anyone. I asked her sister what's up, and she said I would know if I really loved my girlfriend. I have no clue what that is supposed to mean. But I went to her house today, and her mom actually had to threaten her to stop being ignorant to me. It's really bad.

kimyo · March 2009

I wasn't that bad. xD Well... *giggles* I got REALLY moody because my brothers had girlfriends. I had issues because I wasn't able to spend time with my brothers anymore and I had seperation issues. Not really bad, but I was left alone at home and had to get used to it. I still don't like the idea of my brothers having girlfriends, but one of them is getting married, so what can I do about it? She's probably throwing a huge fit just like I did. xD I actually threw a glass vase and broke it on the wall because I was so frustrated. I should stop using first person pronouns, but I just got mad, just because. I just felt the need to get mad at something, and throw it at someone who was the nearest target, and in this case, it was you. =P

98rtsy · March 2009

I'm talking to her now to. At times I think she has problems. She is like screaming and having a fit.

kimyo · March 2009

If it isn't that much to ask, how old is her sister?

98rtsy · March 2009

16, but she is acting like she is 3. I'm about to just give her sister up and not worry about it. I really don't need her anyway.

kimyo · March 2009

xD I'm not even that old. o.o And she sounds like she's acting worse than me. That's the little sister's plan, to break you two up. xD Little sisters are just that devilish. =P

98rtsy · March 2009

NO. My girlfriend is 14, her sister is 16. It's the other way around.

kimyo · March 2009

Ah... sorry about that. =P Now that's REALLY weird. =P I wouldn't think an older sister would freak out that much.

98rtsy · March 2009

I know. Her sister thinks it is all a game. She is telling me how she is gonna have a lot of fun making me mad until we break up and all that. It's getting really annoying.

kimyo · March 2009

Oh geez... This sounds likes there's a lot of drama involved. Have you talked to your girlfriend why she's acting this way?

saved09 · March 2009

I've seen it happen, it's kind of the same concept; the older sister is playing overprotective to break you guys up. If you dump her sister, she'll probably just be getting what she wants. I suggest just meeting your girlfriend away from her sister, and if your gf believes everything her sister says, that is not your fault, its hers. Just be honest with her, and tell her how you feel.

98rtsy · March 2009

Yeah. It's because she liked my girlfriends ex better than me, and she is saying I stole her from him and my girlfriend really liked him and all that. I'm like, she didn't like him that much f she broke up with him for me. It's all over something that stupid. UGH...I hate this so much. :x

kimyo · March 2009

This is kind of a tough situation to be in. =P Heck, if you don't want to deal with the older sister, then let it be. Just date your girlfriend. You're not dating her sister, so why should you worry too much about her? If your girlfriend trusts you, then you shouldn't get into much trouble with her sister. Either that, or just wait to see if her older sister calms down. If she doesn't, you might want to think of solutions, or a pro and con list.

98rtsy · March 2009

Saved: My sister doesn't really believe her, but she asks me if I did. I just simply say no, then we move on. Kimyo: That's what my mom told me when I told her about it. I've only met her at her house once. Any other time it is up the road from her house. I just told my girlfriends sister I'm done with her and she was like, I'll never be done with you. I'm not even worried about it any more. I'm done.

kimyo · March 2009

You're taking it pretty well, congrats. Just take it easy and don't stress yourself out.

98rtsy · March 2009

I'm not. RIght now she can say anything she wants, I'm with the best girl ever, and I'm the best I have ever been.

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